have you had arguments with your husband/wife about your child/children?

My husband and I don't really argue about it but we do talk about things. Sometimes we disagree and compromise and make it work for us. because you can't really raise a child in two different ways, nor should you be arguing all the time. I think as soon as either of you think the other is doing something you don't agree with talk about both ways, pros and cons. Also in a way I agree with your sister. You shouldn't have to follow your 1 year old child around all day long. I can tell my daughter 20 times to stop doing something and as a 2 year old she is still going to do it until she falls or gets hurt and then she realizes and doesn't do it. Now of course if it is really dangerous for her or someone else I don't just sit back but sometimes you have to let them learn. The rules apply at all ages it is just different things you tell a teenager not to do something they are not necessarily going to listen, usually they rebel out of curiousity. Well young kids are the same way. Good luck, you and your husband can have a wonderful child raising experience with out fighting as long as you talk about things. You can even start now. Talk about what your sister and husband fight about if you figure out what you want before your child gets to that stage then you bypass all the stress.

surely everyone does. and it's natual to have diverse opinion because each one stands from a different position and considers things in a different way. best way to do with it in most cases is to turn a blind eye on this.