Why do guys like it so much

I think they like it because then they are more confident in not getting rejected on whatever else they may want. We all hate rejection but men definitely hate it more. It doesnt bother me that they are this way, i prefer to make the move anyway if im interested because then i dont have to be in the awkward position of turning them down if im not interested.

[b]this doesn't really bother me at all because sometimes us girls has to make the move first too. this boosts their ego, their manness in their body. they also find it sweet if their girlfriend kisses them out of the blue right? i believe they also feel the same thing us girls feels. they must also be given a chance to feel how special they are into your life by doing something extraordinary that a man hasn't done to their girlfriends to. i guess they love surprises like we do right? it is a matter of adding spice into your relationship that could help make it more stronger and longer. happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]

I have never had a problem like this. My fiance and I share it equally or whenever we want it. It doesn't matter if it is him doing the initial move or if it is me. I have no problem with it either way. I know it makes guys feel good that we are showing that we have intrest in them as well.

are you talking about at the beginning of a relationship or all throughout? i know that i prefere her to make the first moves at the beginning just because i don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or overstep myself, if she makes the first moves i know what she is ok with. After a while though i take the initiative just as much as she does because i know that she isn't going to be uncomfortable with it.

when was 31 and me 21 when we met .. he was so scared .. first time he asked me if he can hold my hand ... while waiting for my bus ... i looked at him .. he felt guilty ... i just gave him my hand, i felt pity ... that was when i felt i have fallen in love ... when the bus came , i tip toed and kissed him on his cheek and ran into the bus ... well .. after that all moves were by him .. sometimes when i want i make the move .. i know his weakness