When to say it's over (Ending a Relationship)
August 17, 2008 9:09pm CST
When do you say it's over? For me, I would end a relationship when there's physical hurt. When partner becomes physical. If your partner could do it once, it's more likely to be repeated. Another one reason for me to end a relationship is when there's infedelity. No matter what form it is. Shallow or not. How about you?
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18 Aug 08
Yes you ar right.. when your partner become abusive, that's exactly the time to leave. For me abusive is not only physical things, when he/she has become verbally abusive you already have a ticket to go from the relationship. I believe she/he will tell you that she/he would never do that again, and promises that everything will be better. But as you've said before, it's more likely to be repeated and i believe no one sober will take the risk for that.
18 Aug 08
I think that their is no such thing as a perfect relationship. I'll end up the relationship when I see that my partner doesn't love me anymore, then I insist myself. When I feel that it's not a healthy relationship anymore that i am pulling her down or she's pulling me down.When it's getting to be a one way street. When we can't face or solve the problems within us. When my partner cannot be herself anymore. when sweetness becomes sour. When we cannot cope up with the pains or hurts. When I loose my trust and can't believe on her anymore. Have a nice day!