Love love love?

@jaded22 (828)
Philippines
August 19, 2008 2:37am CST
So I have this friend. We've known each other for quite some time. Over the course of the years that we've known each other, she's had what.. 5 or 6 boyfriends already. And she's only 15. Imagine, she hasn't even reached the age of 18 and there you go. Guys come and go through her life. I don't know if what she's really feeling towards the guy[s] is love. After she has ended a relationship (or who knows, maybe the guy ends it) its like its customary for her to have a new boyfriend in order to show off to the former 'boyfriend' that she has moved on and the heck with him anyway. She's even been branded by some of my friends as a flirt. I treat her like a younger sister, but honestly, I'm tired of giving advises to her because the tendency is I'd say the same things all over again. Lol. Oh well. Lmao. Any advice on what I should tell her?
4 responses
rocker21
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
19 Aug 08
Well buddy if you being her brother couldn't give her advice which is needful then how would we able to give you advice which would help her out? I just m glad nothing bad has happened with her but as she'll learn to grow she'll be finally knowing that whatever she is doing or has been doing is and was wrong, but thats when she may fall and then rise. Thats the only thing, Let bad experiences hit her and she'll learn when she'll fall.
jaded22
@jaded22 (828)
• Philippines
19 Aug 08
Hi there, Thank you for responding. Well, don't get me wrong. I actually know what to advice to her but its just that sometimes I get tired on what to say since the same thing happens all over again. I'm just seeking other responses. Well I agree with you on one thing though. The bad experiences will surely help her grow/mature more.
kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
10 Jan 10
There is nothing you can do about it. Let her grow up, and let her be the one who take the responsibility, and to see the real world. Wisdom is through experience, and not from simple 2 or 3 advises will work.
thugstyle21
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
TODAYS WORLD IS MATERIALISTIC NOBODY CARES ABOUT OTHERS OR ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS. The true person with a good heart always suffer as such he gets the pinch who does not deserve it . Until the person realizes of what he has done its already to late She who does not know of the complications she will face will one day suffer then it shall be too late for her perhaps for her your a good well wisher of her she only has but you always try as hard as you can from your side and don't let her fall in that ditch of darkness
ushaqwer
@ushaqwer (95)
• India
19 Aug 08
say her that having boyfriends will really ruin her life.even if she is 18,it is not good for her to have many boyfriends.if she is interested in love marriage say her to love somebody at the age of 20-25.that looks good and she will be respected by everybody
kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
10 Jan 10
honestly, that is her lifestyle, and she might not listen to you even though you put your heart out for her. So, just let her be, and finally she will learn her lesson some day. People will grow up, and during this process, she has to learn it herself. All other advises, it won't work for her.