Can we talk?

@dheal888 (283)
Indonesia
August 19, 2008 10:58am CST
Maybe it's problem but i like it. One thing i love is loneliness if i have problems. But my parents told me that loneliness is not true. You must talk and share with any people if you have problem. Is it good or bad attitude? I have heard wise man say, Can we talk?
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@nilzerous1 (2435)
• India
19 Aug 08
There is no hard and fast rule on how to combat a problem. It depends a lot on the nature of problem itself. If it relates to your family, then you need to talk with your family members; for problems relating to social issues - friends are great; for problems that concern your career, you should talk with your teachers or anyone whom you can trust. Finally, for problems that relate to your personal life - it might be anxiety, uncertainty, goal setting, stress or dissatisfaction - you need to talk to yourself. Under such circumstances loneliness works the best. But remember if you feel frustrated, you must not stay aloof confining yourself in a lonely corner. This is the situation when you will never like to open up yourself but you need to do so to overcome the situation. I would even suggest you to talk about something else with your friends or family members. It may not be necessarily relate directly to the frustrating thoughts that might have kept your mind obsessed. But it seems to be the best way to combat such situation. I think your parents have referred to this situation.
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@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
Thank you very much my friend. I was thinking about that and you're true. I'll try that. Once again, thanks for your advice. Take care!
• United States
19 Aug 08
People deal with things in their own way. Sometimes if things aren't going great for you or you're going through something, it is not a good idea to be alone. Sometimes it is best to talk to someone about something, especially when you are trying to make a decision about something or you're stuck on something.
• India
19 Aug 08
Yep, more the number of heads, the more likely the problem will get solved anyway. It's probability!
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
Thanks for your advice. You're true that is not good idea to be alone. Yes, we need to talk. I'll try what you say. Anyway, keep your spirit and have a nice day!
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• United States
20 Aug 08
sometimes it dependz wen i have a problem i dnt wan anyone to no about untill i figure itout i like being alone. and i think it threw one thing i do way to much is think and i like it . its how i figure it out. i cnat let things go and just foget bout them. so thats why i like the lonly thing.
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@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 08
Me too. That's why like being alone and try to forget. But, as my friend told me, finally I must change bad attitude. I think solution of problem is talk and share. Thanks hinkerbell for your advice. Take care you're!
• Pakistan
19 Aug 08
i think sharing solves many problems... sitting alone and thinkg about them just accumulates them... may be a friend or elder have reasonable soution... well i used to do the same as you..sitting alone...thinking all by my self... but that only earned me a migraine... and a short temper... coz all the lava accumulated inside me... and it still does... control this habbit before it becomes your nature
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@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
You're right...Sometime my head pain. Of course I don't ever this habit become nature. Thanks remain me about that. Take care!
• India
19 Aug 08
Hi dheal888! I think it's a very good way of dealing with your problems. By sharing what you feel like, what are causing you the most trouble with other people is indeed an excellent idea. It should help you most than sitting alone thinking how to solve your own problems by yourself. It's a very good thing. Keep it up. Whatever your problem may be, hope it will get solved soon. Take care, good luck and happy mylotting!
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
I appreciated with you. Thanks for your advice and spirits. Anyway, now i felt better after talking with mylotting at here.
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• India
19 Aug 08
That's nice to know! See, we help! :)
@Suny0610 (48)
20 Aug 08
sometimes i like you.i refer to stay alone.but when i am really very sad.i just can not help to tell my best friend.she will stay with me.she is really a very good friend.and after telling she i feel better.So i think share it with your friend is a good way.you'll be better and you friends will know you more.understand is important
@dheal888 (283)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
Yes, I'd do that. But sometime and that my problems when get problems, refer to stay alone. That's feel good for me. But, problem never find solutions. I'll try that share with my friend or who loved me. Thanks for your advice.