Can we talk?

There is no hard and fast rule on how to combat a problem. It depends a lot on the nature of problem itself. If it relates to your family, then you need to talk with your family members; for problems relating to social issues - friends are great; for problems that concern your career, you should talk with your teachers or anyone whom you can trust. Finally, for problems that relate to your personal life - it might be anxiety, uncertainty, goal setting, stress or dissatisfaction - you need to talk to yourself. Under such circumstances loneliness works the best. But remember if you feel frustrated, you must not stay aloof confining yourself in a lonely corner. This is the situation when you will never like to open up yourself but you need to do so to overcome the situation. I would even suggest you to talk about something else with your friends or family members. It may not be necessarily relate directly to the frustrating thoughts that might have kept your mind obsessed. But it seems to be the best way to combat such situation. I think your parents have referred to this situation.

People deal with things in their own way. Sometimes if things aren't going great for you or you're going through something, it is not a good idea to be alone. Sometimes it is best to talk to someone about something, especially when you are trying to make a decision about something or you're stuck on something.

Hi dheal888! I think it's a very good way of dealing with your problems. By sharing what you feel like, what are causing you the most trouble with other people is indeed an excellent idea. It should help you most than sitting alone thinking how to solve your own problems by yourself. It's a very good thing. Keep it up. Whatever your problem may be, hope it will get solved soon. Take care, good luck and happy mylotting!

i think sharing solves many problems... sitting alone and thinkg about them just accumulates them... may be a friend or elder have reasonable soution... well i used to do the same as you..sitting alone...thinking all by my self... but that only earned me a migraine... and a short temper... coz all the lava accumulated inside me... and it still does... control this habbit before it becomes your nature

sometimes i like you.i refer to stay alone.but when i am really very sad.i just can not help to tell my best friend.she will stay with me.she is really a very good friend.and after telling she i feel better.So i think share it with your friend is a good way.you'll be better and you friends will know you more.understand is important

sometimes it dependz wen i have a problem i dnt wan anyone to no about untill i figure itout i like being alone. and i think it threw one thing i do way to much is think and i like it . its how i figure it out. i cnat let things go and just foget bout them. so thats why i like the lonly thing.