unfaithfil mom.

Philippines
August 19, 2008 11:42pm CST
I don't know how to start this whole damn thing.. well my mom was cheating my dad for many years. she have another guy in her life and they had children but what my mom did, he not told my father that the child was his. we just don't understand our father cause we offen approach him and tell him the truth but he will never believe us. he keeps on saying to us that were just angry of our mother, he keeps on telling us that we have to respect our mother and not to make any bad stories about her.we often saw her at the mall with the guy.. not just once but many times. and also the maids tell us that it was really my moms boyfriend. i love my dad so much i don't want to hurt him. i just don't know what to do let him face the reality. that my mom is a freaking liar. I hate my mom a lot..I just don't understand why he do could to do it to my dad. I don't want to ruin our family but i just don't have any choice we have to end this up, cause i could not affort seeing my dad hugging and kissing the child which is not his..I don't care if i don't have mom atleast i'am true to myself.. my life is pretty much ruin.
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dhalev78
@dhalev78 (104)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
It's sad to hear from you about your mom... But you don't have to be affected on what's happening to your family, sometimes we just don't know or understand why these things happened, But we must think that all things happens for a reason! Maybe your mom doesn't love your dad anymore, or maybe they (your mom and dad) have talked about it but they don't want to brought it out to you because they don't want you to be hurt... There are some reasons that sometimes we don't understand... But always think of it this way, God doesn't give us problems that we cannot bear... so why ruined your life??? Use this situation to make your life meaningful and be challeged, try to forgive your mom so that you can move on... Give her the understanding she needs today and you will have the answers to your questions when the right time comes... God Bless you... and thanks for posting...
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ayessa
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Im so sorry to hear about your mom. It was really something hurtful for a child to know that his parent was cheating one of the spouse. I really don't know what to say but your father must have trusted your mom so much for believing her. I just wish that you can still continue to live your life and try to forgive your mom which i know is something hard to do.