What do you feel when no one's responded to your recent discussion?

@kharen (1488)
Philippines
August 20, 2008 12:46am CST
I feel sad and think why won't they answer? It was just a simple question that I started yet still no one answered. But I've gotten used to it in a way but sometimes I still feel bad that I feel I've wasted my time posting that discussion and no one haven't answered it. How about you? What do you feel when one of your discussions isn't answered? Does it matter to you or not really?
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18 responses
@jaded22 (828)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Naturally, you'd feel sad and disappointed. But that's just how it is I guess. Some discussions that we start could be of no interest to other mylotters. Lol. Its just a matter of starting a discussion that some or most could relate to.
@kharen (1488)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I just couldn't think of any sometimes.. lol sometimes I even ask questions that can be my discussion from my family..lolx
@riyasam (16578)
• India
20 Aug 08
i do feel bad when i get no responses especially my friend my lotters who do not bother to respond to my discussion.happy mylotting.
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• China
21 Aug 08
I jointed to Mylot only a few days, in order to practise and improve my English. A few minutes ago, I started my first discussion. It's a pleasure if someone responds to it. but if not, I think I won't feel sad because I already had a joy in the experience of starting a dicussion. Have a nice day!
@adthacker (197)
• India
21 Aug 08
i feel very bad and start observing my discussion topic where i made mistake so ppl didnt reply me and also i start analysis on other discussion who get max response
• United States
21 Aug 08
I've only posted a few questions, because I just joined yesterday. But the questions that I did ask did not get very many answers. But I noticed that there aren't many open discussions in the interests that I ask. It doesn't really bother me yet.
@bgreen8 (266)
• United States
21 Aug 08
It doesn't bother me when my discussions are not commented on. That just tells me that I need to work on creating more interesting topics. So, I wouldn't worry about it. You will eventually get some comments. ;)
@SHAMRACK (8384)
• India
20 Aug 08
Dear friend, I might just think the person who is willing to respond that topic is yet waiting. May be I would not put any more discussion with any similar to that too. Moreover time is yet to come let put some other topics and just give responds and my part still continues here.
@Chevee (5915)
• United States
20 Aug 08
At first, I felt ignored when no one responded to my discussions, do I started a discussions saying I felt ignored and I met many friends from that discussions, now I feel bad but I just think no one is interested or that it might be important to me but not anyone else. I just go on to the next one.
• Sweden
20 Aug 08
I think i will felt sad cause it means nobody is interested with my topic of course it is matter to me.I always wanted that if i put post in mylot there will be more responce i got but if not then i will felt sad cause nobody is interested with my topic.
• United States
20 Aug 08
Just keep trying. Come up with different topics. Someone will respond. I just got started. Some days are good than other are not. Look at what's going on in the world, news, entertainment, politics...start from there. Good Luck!
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
20 Aug 08
I had ever had same experience,don't care it,you should keep posting.Maybe people didn't see your post,you should think that whether your dicussion is significative,and whether people undertood what you said.It's not important that how many people reponsed your post,just you enjoy myot and your response can help others,it's ok. Keep posting,you will get more reponse.
@biggerb (2028)
• India
20 Aug 08
Initially i used to feel bad about it.Now I have come to accept it and dont get worked up.I just tell myself I was not able to post something will many would find interesting.But I find many getting lots of responses, hats off to those people.Now i have stopped posting i simply respond to others discussions.This works out fine for me.I do not know about the earnings if posting or responding which fetches more earnings.I just keep doing what I like best.
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
Karen, I think discussion is always a matter of interest instead of others, we can't expect people to discuss with us the matter that they don't interest in, can we? So, I think what best is to keep asking what interest you, instead of post a topic that might interest others, so then you will get a long reply to each other for days, week, or even month. That's a truly discussion instead of dropping by a line or two. So don't need to be sad if there's no one responded :), you should keep post anyway :)
• India
20 Aug 08
I am very sad when I am getting zero responses. I realize that people don't like such points to discuss. When I reached 500 postings, I discussed it in make extra money. I got only one response. I became very sad.At the same time 6 people were responded to the same matter in mylot.com. Then I became very happy.
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
of course it does matter to me. i really do feel very sad and disappointed somehow when no one responds to my discussions. it seems that my discussion is not that interesting topic to talk about thats why no one even bothers to respond. thats one reason why i now focused myself more on responding to other's discussion rather than starting my own. i find myself better when responding or posting comments than making up my own discussion. anyway, keep on posting! happy mylotting!
@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
Well I feel bad but until the day ends I still hope that someone might answer it. Also if no one responds to it I really don't mind much because getting responses from your discussions won't earn you money. I only worry if I was asking a serious question.
@winzpc (2356)
• Indonesia
20 Aug 08
According to me, I can't accept that. Until now, I just have one discussion that have no respond. I think it is not other mylotter fault but it because my dicussion is not interesting. so I keep post and try to improve my discussion in future. Also I usually post a discussion in popular interest and use an unique header title, so it is have more big chance for my discussion to be responded by other mylotter. Keep Post Have a nice day in mylot.
@agihcam (1915)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
This is fine for me. There can be two reason's and the one is from my discussions itself, maybe, I did posted a topic which many users cannot adopt to what I was saying. or maybe the topic is not familiar.