just got a new job same day the interview was

United States
August 20, 2008 5:58pm CST
well they emphasized that the guys like to smoke and curse alot and they dont want some one who would be easily offended. so im thinking that they may get up set and say f... or s... you know guys stuff. and they sounded like that was what is going on. well i went and took notes and learned a few things from what is expected of me today and met the wife and a the office workers. things are really busy there but it looks not to bad. well for what im use to. then omg the owner comes in and says " hello b----" i look at him in amazement. he says laughing oh just wanted to test you out and get you use to it. i didnt know what to say. i need the job and its what i want to do in the office but after telling my husband he is very pissed. he doesnt think i should go back there. what do you think i should do? i am unemployed!!!! This is such a hard decision and after talking with my husband he thinks its another job i probably will have trouble at in the long run. it so hard with this economy and the employers get away with this its nuts!!! any advice?????
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• Alexandria, Virginia
20 Aug 08
this is a toxic work environment start looking around what country are in
• United States
20 Aug 08
thats why im looking for advice. obviously the employer things this is completely ok. and things that this is professional for him. i just cant find a job that has a good environment and office environment that i want. damn i cant get no breaks. its so frusteration. my hubby says that he obviously is going to walk all over me ( the employer) and that i am going to be miserable there. I just crazy how i was hired that fast and i did except and it seemed like a good job and what i want to do but damn its a little scary to not know what to expect. they said they let go of the last girl. im almost wondering why? or what really happened. should i take a tape recorder to work with me for evidence if i should get harrassed. damn its so hard. i do neeed money and a job but not the agravation. its such a hard choice. i live in usa, new york state. why where do you live?