i don't care at all...

August 20, 2008 8:44pm CST
do you care what your family thinks about your girlfriend/boyfriend?
5 responses
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
25 Aug 08
Well others matter in life, thats true, the world has been made up of one of us, the humans and the other people carry alot of value in anyone's life, If you wont care how people think about your gf/bf, its okay for sometime but it has no future, In this world full of social needs there has to be a mutual agreement between you and the world, It sometimes feels that not caring about other's opinions and doing what you want is right but we forget that we have to live within this stupid society at last. So why not trick things out and make everyone follow what our opinion is all about?
@p3y5566 (171)
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
Hi, nice to meet you here I think i will care about my family think about my boyfriend( if i have one). It because, to me, my family is important for me. They in my heart is number 1. So, if they not agree that i with my boyfriend, i will unhappy or sad. But i will try to get some agreement from them just because they are my family and i will respect them. Have a nice day and happy my lotting!
• Malaysia
21 Aug 08
Of course... I will tell everything about my boyfriend to them, and they will comment about him. I think it is compulsary for me to get their idea because I am girl so its degerous for me to take a boy to be my bofriend without my family permisions as now many crimes happen at our surrounding. Most men cannot cannot be trusted. So I need to take care of my self..
@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
21 Aug 08
nope, it really dosent matter wht they thing. their not the one dating her and it souldnt matter all they should care about is if i'm happy or not. if they cant be happy for me then i dont think tht they have the right to say anything bad about her. i've gone through this with my parents before and because of it, i dont really talk to them much or tell them who i'm with. i know their reason for not liking her, but they really dont know her like i do.
• United States
21 Aug 08
I will not let my family decide who I will date, but if they have an opinion I will listen to it and think about what they have said, but I will not base my relationship decisions off of what my parents believe, though they have been right many times, it's still up to me to experience breakups and bad relationships to know what a good relationship is, and now I found a great guy that my family loves, and more importantly that I love and that I am very happy and comfortable with! It is just a great plus to have an approving family, but I would not break up with a man because my family doesn't approve or like him, that's just how I am, and they would never ask me to break up with a guy, they leave it all to me to learn from my mistakes.