I Hate You!

@medicguy (307)
Pakistan
August 21, 2008 7:13am CST
We hate individuals we don't like, simple as that. We hate them because in them we find something annoying that irritates us immeasurably. But we don't realize that something we hate in those individuals has somewhat have been part of us. This is because what is not part of us, does not bother us. Was inspired by something I read in my email today. Love and be loved. Trust and be trusted! Your friendly myLotter, medicguy
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
21 Aug 08
I totally agree with you! I always say criminal accuse others of what they are doing simple as that! It is interest concept if you really observe. I try to refrain myself from disliking people but if someone step on me mmmm, I put them in black list forever!!!!! LOL
@medicguy (307)
• Pakistan
21 Aug 08
I simply don't get it why people focus on differences more than the similarities that exist within one another. I always like to find common ground and believe me, there is always one. Valeria, you have a great day now friend!
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@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
22 Aug 08
I do fix myself more in the similarities and after having bad relationships I decide to find a partner exactly like me and I did! We are exactly the same and today we are married! LOL
@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
21 Aug 08
hate - girl covering her face with hate written on her hand
i agree. i often hate people because they have something i dont have or they are similar to me. its kinda both extremes. if someone is very similar to me (personality wise) then i hate then because i cant get along with them, two of me is waaay too much to deal with. and also, if someone has something i wish i had (looks wise, girlfriend wise, personality wise) then i hate them because they have what i want. its kindaa of a weird psychology but its the best way i can explain it.
@medicguy (307)
• Pakistan
21 Aug 08
Interesting take skenthal, very clever indeed. But when you hate because of something you lack and still want to fulfill yourself, isn't that a bit of hating yourself too, because think about it, if you wouldn't be jealous in first place, there won't be an envious tendency at all. But agreed to some extent that it could work out both ways. Good day friend!
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
You may be right but I guess I cannot apply such beautiful words completely to myself because I don't necessarily hate a person just because I don't like him or her. Hate is such a strong word and I only apply it to people who have caused me so much pain when I did nothing but love them. I don't hate people I don't like. It's as simple as "I don't like her, she's such a spoiled brat" or "I don't like him because he's such a racist" but I don't say "I hate her because she's such a spoiled brat" or "I hate him because he's such a racist". I just don't like something and that's that. Shucks! I think I'm going in circles. I hope you got my point though. I like your words though, it rings true, sometimes maybe... for some maybe... God bless you always...
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I don't hate people that i don't like. I just may not like his attitude towards me, or his way of talking or his actions but i don't necessarily hate him. I will hate someone who have betrayed my trust or who have took advantage of me.For me hating is different from disliking or liking people. So, i think i may dislike people whom i do not know and hate only those who have been close to me but has offended or betrayed me in any way. That's my opinion of this like and hate thing. Have a nice day friend!
@shav9292 (928)
• India
23 Aug 08
fair enough medic but whatever a person tries to achieve ,at the end of the day he is a human being.it is easier said than done. Human tendency is to like and hate. just as we like something we hate somethings. just like good or bad. But to a limit it is OK if it is taken too far it goes BAD.
@eve301345 (658)
• Philippines
21 Aug 08
Thats is absolutely true. Its like the saying that" I don't give reason for somebody to hate me, They just do their own little drama of pure insecurity. I cannot understand why people cant just be happy of what they have and just shut their mouth when they see better thing from other.
@medicguy (307)
• Pakistan
21 Aug 08
Yes, kinda like mind our own businesses. If we start practicing this very now, we would have a much healthier and peaceful relationship everywhere. But I guess, these are human shortcomings that are hard to overcome.