i cried for one of my gmoms deaths but not the other???

United States
August 21, 2008 3:26pm CST
well my biological gmom died i bawled my eeys out . but then a month later my step gmom died. and i didnt cry i tear. was it becuz she wasnt one i spend time with but my bio gmom i havent seen her for bout 2 years but i grew up around her. and my other gmom died and i been round her for the 2 years. i didnt cry cuz she wants one i grew up with or i ws sick of crying
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• United States
22 Aug 08
Well, I can't say that it was only because it was your biological grandmother. It depends on the relationship you had with both of them. I'm guessing it was because you had been around one recently than the other. I'm sure that your other grandmother knows hows much you care about her. Don't feel guilty. You may have already been all cried out at that time. Shock can also delay or prevent responses.