A good friend

Indonesia
August 21, 2008 6:07pm CST
I believe you have alot of friend now. But can you make sure they is a good friend for you or just pretend good in front of you? Even i can't answer it. I just hope all my friend is really honest to me.
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6 responses
@rainwater (352)
• China
22 Aug 08
I believe all of my friends,I just hope all my friend is really honest to me .
@nynapper (82)
• United States
22 Aug 08
There's no real way to make sure, but you can tell who your good friends are by how comfortable you are around them and how they treat others. I remember having a close knit group of friends in high school, all of our friends were nice but they all reacted in different ways when faced with a situation like the hot girls in the school hitting up some small talk after school for example. One of my friends seemed unchanged, we conversed the same way with the girls as we would to if we were talking to each other alone. Another friend acted funny, he would try to show he was the alpha male in the group by showing up one of our buddies who had came back from the store by remarking 'it was about time you got back with my water'. Needless to say the other friend we barely see him anymore, and everyone else I feel like I can share anything with them things I feel sensitive about like how I was struggling to make friends in my first month of college. It's the kind of thing you could only tell to friends you trusted, the good friends. Other friends you might have doubts about how they'll percieve you or what they'll say to others.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
21 Aug 08
I think relationships of any kind are complicated, when it comes to humans you can never be too sure about anything, people keep growing and by growing some change a lot and with all the pressures and uinfluences around they can change against you so I think you can only take it as it comes so to speak...
• Malaysia
22 Aug 08
Hi mahdi79, definitely everybody hope that the friends arounds are their good friends. I think there is no way for us to make the judgement on the perosn whether they are our good friend or not. So long he / she not doing anything that can harm you will do. However, as friends, it is some kind of 'give and take' relationship, do you agree? Although they have done something that hurt you, still there are some people will choose to forgive their friends.
@BriNbai (912)
• United States
21 Aug 08
Real friends arent those people who always tell you what you want to hear,They are the ones telling you what you NEED to hear. I think that you can tell when you have a real friend because no matter what they are there for you when you need them and always try to help whether they can or not. Just make sure you're a good friend and you will see you will have true friends too
@tjonys (217)
• China
22 Aug 08
If you have a lot of friends you should distinguish between ordinary friends and good friends! You do not have much energy to operate so many of friendship,as long as one of 12 can be developed,we should meet.