why is it so sad when you are single??

Philippines
August 22, 2008 1:38am CST
thus it really have to be like this??you like someone,, for a time you taught that he likes you too,, then suddenly the big news came up saying he already has a girl,,,hahaha..the sad part there is that they are both my friend,,and i can't imagine myself hanging out with my peers including the both of them..huhuhu... i just want to melt...can i have someone out there who shares the same agony as i am??hehehe..can i be happy too??
7 responses
@voltes5 (34)
13 Sep 08
In my case I'm happy being single because I have to. I realized that being single is destiny. I'm sick and tired of being cheated so after my last failed relationnship I just gave up hope.
@adoremay (2069)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
You can! Happiness is for everybody! You can always be happy if you want to. I am single, but I am not sad... I don't really know why people always define singleness as sadness, i don't see the relation.
@Aiwendel (105)
• United States
24 Aug 08
Its because of the stupid urges humans are created with.
@puicuno (75)
• Italy
24 Aug 08
I'm single but...i'm happy with it!!! I'd like having someone but...there's not! and i'm happy the same. I'm a student, and have a lot of things to do. fortunately i like solitude, so i don't mind it
• Dominican Republic
24 Aug 08
nOoO... I'm single and I enjoy my life as it is now!... well, not THAT much, jiji I'm going through the same stuff, not EXACTLY the same but in many ways, yes. I like this guy (i'm not dating him but we flirt a lot!) and he's great, but sometimes I have doubts, that's normal, right? and he also has doubts about me, except that he cleares them up with other girls! so, I decided to move on and live my life, have fun with my friends and try not to think about it, he comes around once in a while and I just blow him off... the time to be with someone special will come, maybe this someone its not the guy you're talking about... Good luck and Cheer up... there're more fishes out in the sea!
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
life's like that,my friend.sometimes,things don't happen the way we want it to be.but for sure they do happen for a greater purpose.life's full of mysteries and surprises.when you ask for something,it's not always a "yes" for an answer.sometimes it's "no", and sometimes, "you just have to wait".having someone to love can surely make a brighter day.but it's not the only way,my friend.it's you who can make you happy.you choose it.you still have friends and family,right?maybe if you still cannot find the right guy for you,it's because God is not yet finish searching the finest and the best man for you.patience is a virtue,keep it.look around you. sometimes,it's already there.we just missed it because we're to busy collecting stones we're in fact the diamond is on our very palm.in life,we met few wrong people so that when we finally met the right one,we will know how to be grateful..and know the difference...stay happy.the world has sooo much to offer for you to enjoy...Go,girl!!!
@cishi1230 (197)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
sure you can be happy...just try to divert your attention into something more productive and proactive... sure you'll find someone who'll catch your attention..there's a lot of fish in the ocean...just try to catch a good one..*wink*