is there really an ideal man?

Philippines
August 22, 2008 3:28am CST
MEN: they seem to be loving at first but gets to be so stubborn.i don't understand why it's so hard for them to keep a relationship and it's so easy to find another woman. some guys are aliens.they keep their feelings to themselves and don't give you a hint that they like you..you pour out your heart to him and still he treats you indifferently.he says that he doesn't have time because he's busy.it's so obvious to both of you that you're nuts about each other but still he denies that obvious fact. you are sure that he's your ideal man but he doesn't think the same.he feels alienated from the world he lives in, gets pissed at some things. oh well..so far, i can conclude that MY IDEAL MAN DOESN'T EXIST. unless somebody out there thinks otherwise.. i invite everyone to enlighten me..
2 responses
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
for me, an ideal man doesn't exist. you set qualifications on what you want your man to be that's why you call him IDEAL, but truthfully there's no such thing. GOD wouldn't give you the man you like, but instead... in most unexpected way, He'll give you someone opposite you like. because in such way, you'll learn things from each other. and you'll learn how to understand and love such differences... that's why your ideal person doesn't exist!
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
thanks blue. maybe i set my expectations way too high to find such a man. still i'm keeping my fingers crossed
@applefreak (3132)
• Singapore
22 Aug 08
well i'm sure at one point of time our man felt like the ideal man. however, we change as time passes by and our expectations grow. when a couple first started out, a bouquet of flowers are enough. as the relationship progresses, the bouquet no longer does its job. it is very difficult for couples to grow in the same way. if expectations remained the same, i'm sure our partner will be the ideal man for us. cheers ;p