Did you ever felt sometimes that you are being use by someone?

@lynboobsy11 (11346)
Philippines
August 22, 2008 9:41am CST
As a friend... a lover... or a wife? Were only humans we have feelings and we have different thoughts and perspective in life...different level and capacity of thinking. Maybe many of us loves to give happiness to others...with our friends, to our love ones... and in spite of, we are happy of what we are giving to them, the joy and the laughter we shared with them, did you ever sometimes thought that you wish to stop and just received and not to give..... we have a saying it is better to give than to received...... but did you ever felt tired of being a giver? And felt that you are being used by them because only when they want something from you? Can you please share your thoughts on this.... Have nice day to all....
3 responses
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
23 Aug 08
Are you kidding? I'm the one that at one time said, "I feel like there's a sign on my forehead that says 'Use me and Abuse me'" Problem was I was the one that put the sign there - I let people use me and once I took that sign off I found a lot of people who I thought were my friends really weren't. I found new friends.
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
Hahahaha....no I'm not.... Your lucky you find new friends... Have a nice day...cheers
@BYOLA2871 (4373)
• South Africa
27 Aug 08
well yes you are right there are times when each one of us actually want to have love given to us just like we give but unfortunately you discover that most times the people you show love to dont actually give it in return but it shouldnt stop us from giving and showing love.giving is the best part of life
@Arkie69 (2156)
• United States
22 Aug 08
Lyn, We are all being used every day and most times in several different ways. Everyone from our own Government to the next door Neighbor will use us if the need arises. It is just part of life. Just do your best to prevent it when you can and just let it pass when you can't.