Have children are necessary?

@Flouya (283)
India
August 22, 2008 7:47pm CST
In my country,most of people are troubled by the huge population. It seems that too many childen mean too much problem. Modern people,especially citizens only have one child in their famliy. You could say that's the result of birth control's policy. But looking from some kinds of degree,that's reality. I didn't mean have childen not to be good. What i want to express is that having too many childen are weather necessary. Now, there is popular slogan,later lives,the late development optimun methods of child-bearing and child-rearing. It's said that bring up a child in my city will cost 250000 RMB. Will you have two above children?
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• United States
23 Aug 08
I don't really want to have children, but I am only eighteen and I guess I might change my mind at some point after I eventually get married, all I know though is that I don't really like children, they annoy me more than make me think they are cute and adorable, it seems like I missed out on that maternal gene, but maybe one day it will kick in, I can't say I will never have children. Maybe we should trade places haha, where I live there is not such a big population and there is more spare land and resources for a larger population haha, I don't think I will be one bit unhappy if I do not have children in my life, honestly, I only worry about who will care for me once I am very old, that's one thing to think about! Well anyways, happy mylotting and have a great day/night!
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@Flouya (283)
• India
23 Aug 08
Hi! You are so lucky to live in a richer country. In fact, i don't want kids when i grow older. By that time,my famliy will be pressured me to have a one. Hey!May i can say no.Haha
@sirrob (4112)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
china's population has something to do with it's own history. if we are going to go back in the historical perspective of china, a family should bear or have a male offspring and as long as they won't have one then goes the long way of copulation again and again until such time you have one. and now because of the huge influx of your population that, i believe your government, is having a hard time with the ever growing population thus having a rule of one child per family. and i think it is a wise move and reasonable enough. on the other side, i think it is alright to have more than just 2 kids in the house as long as you can afford the needs of your family. but if it put some strain in your financial needs then it is better to just have what you can afford.
@Flouya (283)
• India
23 Aug 08
I agree with you,but sometimes,i still have questions on the unfair fact. Why somenoe can give birth to so many ,at the same time giving them a better education.For the others,may it be they have no food to it. I feel sad.
@sirrob (4112)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
with the comparison you brought about is just easy if the financial status is different that the first example you have, had money to spend but in the second one, if they only have meager amount and have more children, so that's where the disparity shows. but let me ask you this, what kind of financial status thus the two families you are trying to portray? i think that would matter when making comparison in the case that you have.
@Flouya (283)
• India
23 Aug 08
Even if the future earning money, i still have no attention to have so many. If you love your child, you should give him the all you have,let alone your love. Carefully cultivaing,his edcation,he can become,rather than doting. It's my hope.