What conversations do you share with friends?
By Nashka105
@Nashka105 (52)
United States
August 22, 2008 10:47pm CST
I know quite a few people, but friends? I don't know, there are so many points of view on the subject, but friends, I can count them on one hand. I've always been more of a loner. I guess it's because the things I want to talk about most people want to ignore, so the lack of available conversation is definatly a problem. Ever had that kind of problem? you actually run out of things to talk about with friends?. most people talk about the day's events, and things that are going on in the world. I can't stand that kind of perpetual dialogue about nothing.. I like to talk about things that inspire others, that lift the spirit and give a reason for being. A lot of people don't share this point of view, that's why I think I've always been such a loner. It's good and bad at the same time.
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12 responses
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
most of the time love and relatinships. crushes and activities. sometimes likes and dislikes. clothes and shoes.
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
I used to like talking about school related issues when I was in college as well as trends and updates. I'm also a little bit of a gossip girl. I just love learning about hook ups and breakups! I think I'm the only person who thinks of gossip as a reflection of reality rather than the opposite. Right now, I also like talking about work since I'll be entering the workforce soon. But still, gossip is the #1 conversation topic for me!
no im not a loner..and i can talk anything with my firends but that excludes too personal things that happened in our family...we chat about politics...days happenings and our children!!
@simplychic (41)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
I don't have a bunch of friends nor acquaintances, but i can say that no matter how few my friends are, i'm so lucky to have them because they are the best. They're always there to listen if i have a problem. Always willing to help and do whatever they can just to comfort me. That's why we can talk about almost anything and everything under the sun. We always run out of time whenever we talk about something. The whole day is not enough for our stories to share with each other. We always laugh whenever we're all together. That's why, i consider them as members of the family.
@jamesnogra (381)
• Philippines
23 Aug 08
well most of the discussion we tackle is about nonsense... we started from something related to what will happen an hour after and then the topic changes... it's a matter of the connection of things in this world... we also talk about projects. sometimes we stab people at the back... most of our conversations involves laughing...
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
23 Aug 08
With good friends, I can talk about anything under the sun. We feel that sometimes that we lack a subject to discuss about or talk about due to the need to continously have a conversation going. I really don't think that is necessary and one should not always start a conversation for the sake of doing it. The silence sometimes and being there is more appreciated.
@ashar123 (2357)
• India
23 Aug 08
Same here for me as being a loner. But I do discuss topics which mostly people like to talk about, but still I am a loner. I can also count my friends on my finger tips and they are all busy in their so busy lives. With this, I have developed in myself the love for lonliness, staying alone and thinking about topics and things all by myself without discussing them with anyone.
@sweethomecatring (1563)
• India
23 Aug 08
I can not understand How some peoples are indulged in friendship with hundred of friends and what they share I can think of. When ever I am here to post and read, I too like alone no body may disturb. If people have so much time to involve with the the so many friends I do not understand how they get time to come at my lot and discuss things. If you do some thing extra ordinary and and convert into discussion people like me would certainly be inspired and think like you. Would come out with new ideas and opinions to discuss. There must be some reasoning which may inspire others to adopt.
Have a nice day.
@sugarplum9084 (1771)
• United States
23 Aug 08
I am like you, more of a loner, I can only count my few good friends on one hand as well, and I think I prefer it like that anyway, I have always enjoyed having time with myself more than with others. I have great conversations with my good friends, we talk about the universe and the mysteries of the world a lot, and it's good food for intellectual thinking, I enjoy that type of conversation more than small talk and things that don't matter in my life, I want to talk to people who also inspire me and make me think of how I can improve myself, and I also inspire them in their lives. Talking about the weather and what this or that celebrity said or didn't say just bores me and doesn't spark any interest in me, so I avoid those who would rather talk about that stuff. Anyways, happy mylotting and have a great day or night!
@freey980qiu (2)
• China
23 Aug 08
I used to talk about my day's events to many of my friends. Actually, some of them became one of my best frinds. However, I think to talk to friend, you should not have a mind of talking about some thing with them. Because they are friend, just be yourself when you are with them. If you are not your nature self with them, how could you be friend together?
