A question
By Kemboi
@Kemboi (341)
Eldoret, Kenya
August 23, 2008 7:30am CST
My wife is an orphan her mother passed away when she was two years old, nine years later the father died so she and her one sister and one brother have passed trough a lot of challenges like abandoned by other family relative. My wife was taken to Children's Home, she grew up there got her Education there in children's home after that the government gave her a job.
But the relationship between me and her has not been a sailing through, there has been ups and downs, arguments and others when we are financially down she could complain and complain, when we are okay financially she is ever happy. What about yous relationship between you and your wife? Have you pass several challenges like me? tell of.
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
23 Aug 08
I think all relationships go through some kind of hard times, Kemboi. I have found the key to getting past them, in my case, anyway, is to sit down and talk through them. Sometimes, it is hard to fix something, if you don't know what the real problem is. I can't work on something I do that bugs my husband, if he doesn't tell me it bugs him, and vise versa. If you have a good, honest and open relationship, communication can solve a lot of things. Maybe your wife, after having things so rough, then having things good, is just afraid that things will become the way they were when she was growing up. Sometimes, we mask fear with anger to protect ourselves.
