Is money play role in Love life? Have you face such situation in your life?

India
August 24, 2008 8:47am CST
Hi friends, I saw couple of romio julliet in my life, who love each other more than his/her life, but after marriage, they broke their relationship. I never understand, why people can broke thier relation in love marriage. and most of time, money is the major reason. For example, A Girl want to buy a gold ring, and a boy dont have such money, he want to save money for his child and his future. This is the example. but I observe those things, and most of time, money is the reason for breakup. Is it money more important than love, (after marriage)? after love marriage, Where goes the promises made by each one? Is practicle life force them to break up thier relation?
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@austere (2812)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
it sure plays a role in a relationship. not much, i would say but it's really different when you have money or when your guy has a money. i dont consider it or think of it as a must for a guy to have, but when you date, you need money for that, and when you settle with a guy who has money, you are ensured of a good future, you and your kids. but it should never be a standard in choosing a guy i would say, what people should consider is if you love the guy,and if the guy loves and respects you, because if you choose money over love, then you might be rich but living in misry if that's the case. the money is just a bonus, i would say, what pays importance is loving, respect and truthfuless with each other!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
yep. money plays an important role, but not essential in a success of the relationship or marriage!
• India
30 Aug 08
ya your thinking is really very close to the practicle life. Thanks for comment
@adthacker (196)
• India
25 Aug 08
My dear friend money never play major role in love but problem is different just think when u r in love with any girl you give her costly gift and also u give her whatever she need any how bez you want to make good impression on her now when u r going to marry she still accept same things from u like past but now you have responsibility of her and so many problems you cant give her that type of gift and all this time girl think in past u love me lot now u dnt love me and etc this is humans mentality what we get from any person we need more not less you are right now u have to save money for future and she is also right y she cant get all things bez now she is married she dnt have rights to dream so in this tpe of case you both have to understnd feelings of each other every time u cnt say her for compromise
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• India
30 Aug 08
100% right way of thinking, you mean to say, never impress girl befor marriage by giving such costly gift. That's great !!! Thanks for your comment
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Aug 08
it really plays arole in many love stroies. people fall in love sometimes without considering this. then come the family members or they themselve think it is not matching in terms of money.
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• India
30 Aug 08
hmmm Thanks for your comment
@Elixiress (3878)
24 Aug 08
I think that money is more important than love, because you need money to get by, to pay your rent and buy your food, whereas you can live comfortably without love. So if you end up with someone that is not good with money then that can ruin how you feel for someone, because you can see your comfortable life flash in front of your eyes.
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• India
30 Aug 08
Thanks for your comment
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
25 Aug 08
Well everything has its equal importance in life, nothing can be compared with each other you see, You need money to love and you need love to earn money. If you have just money and no love then its of no use and if you dont have money and just love then it wont make any good. Everything has to have a balance in life, If love is important than money is equally important too. Money is the reality of life, nothing can survive without money everyone knows it. Love is base of life, if you have no love you cant even spend a penny on yourself with joy. You need some one ! and that some one is really important for you in your life, and so is money!
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• India
30 Aug 08
really great answer. Thanks for your comment.
• China
25 Aug 08
When people are in love, they don't care about money so much, but after the marriage, there are lots of place should be spent money, so this is the problem, in my opinion, we should earn enough money befor we get married, in this way, money is not the problem and the life will be better.
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• India
30 Aug 08
That's great response. means, we first care about the money and after think about love. Thanks for your comment
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
25 Aug 08
well, for me it has to be balanced... i can't be a hypocrite and say that i can live on love alone... i have to be logical as well... i won't choose a man who is really poor, jobless and doesn't have any money at all because i don't want to suffer for the rest of my life... but i won't choose a rich man as well as they are usually unfaithful and can cheat on me behind my back... i prefer to have an ordinary man like what i have now... we might not have lots of money but we are happy because we have each other... and as long as we can survive and pay all our bills every month on time, that is enough for us... take care and have a nice day...
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
24 Aug 08
well my mother always say - go into a relationship with both eyes open and close them after marriage. it is important to totally understand the person you want as a life partner before committing. after marriage, don't try to change your partner as you wouldn't want to be changed either. also, money is never the main reason. the main reason for any broken relationship is that they don't love each other enough. if the girl had loved the boy enough, she wouldn't quarrel with him over a gold ring. if the boy had loved the girl enough, he will sit her down and patiently explain to her over and over again. many are lulled by the 'happily-ever-after' promise that they fail to understand that a wedding is just the beginning. cheers ;p
• India
24 Aug 08
Good advice from your mother.
• India
24 Aug 08
hey hi... i know even i have seen people madly in love before and then breaking up mostly because the boy does not have money... actually i feel love is ok till you area teenage and in your young hood but once you grow old money is needed to survive and enjoy life... so people break up.
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• India
30 Aug 08
Thanks for your comment. and you are bit correct.
@hal8711 (102)
• China
25 Aug 08
i hate such relationships... it's true we should consider the money thing, but since you don't have love more than money... how come two people to be together, that's ridiculous. practicle life only can force those who don't love their partner enough to break up!
• India
30 Aug 08
You are 100% true, my friend, but ppl are doing this all. Thanks for your comment.
@vjgrrr (5)
25 Aug 08
money is not a life, only 3is apart of life food,dress,house,so no worry,feel free,,,,,,,,,,,,enjoy anew life style, dont bother anything
• India
30 Aug 08
may be you are too young, or you are really dont care about life style and love. Thanks for your comment.
• India
24 Aug 08
yes money plays a very critical role in our love life i had face wit that. because my girlfriend always wants some thing when i met her every time she usually meets me for some thing that she want so i has to buy for her because i love her very much. but still i love her but not telling that this will be happen in all the lovers only wit some. i like those who love their lovers and help them in any problems and share her boyfrnds problms and finally love is not a part of money love is a part of life
• India
30 Aug 08
Thanks for comment and hope that it won't be play in your life.
@vbleble (122)
• Hong Kong
25 Aug 08
well,, although i'm still young but i believe that money still play a part in love, money is needed in supporting comfortable lives but I disagree that people broke their marriage or the relationships because of money or possessions
• India
30 Aug 08
how much you young, may be you are not face the practicle life. you will be soon see such situation around you. Best of luck, and hope you never come across this type of situation Thanks for your comment
• China
25 Aug 08
I don't think it is money that makes them break up.Money did play an important role in their life.I think what makes them break up is their different attitudes towards money.if people always have different views against each other and they quarrel with each other often,their feelings hurt.what makes it worse,they break up