signs of an unhealthy realtionship...
@kenchiprincess (5296)
Philippines
August 24, 2008 11:57am CST
How do you know that a relationship is turning out to be really bad for you? Here are a few tell-tale signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship,
1. Either of you makes the other feel bad about himself
2. One is manipulating the other
3. One or both of you do not make time for the other
4. One controls the other's money or other resources
Common symptoms of unhealthy relationship often causes us stress and is detrimental to our well being, leaving us down and exhausted.
If something doesn't feel right, then something must be wrong. Assess yourself and start talking to your partner about it so that you can make the necessary adjustments while you still can. If it's to late, you must know that there really is no other way but out.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
thanks for the post!!! do you have any other signs? please share it with us. thanks!!!!
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
Wow thanks for that very useful hints.
I think the earlier that we notice that relationship with our loved ones are becoming unhealthy, the bigger the chance that we can save that from breaking. don't wait to things go further, talk to your partner as soon as possible, and take every possible ways to make things work for both of you, Because if you don't, then sooner or later you just have to let go or live with unhealthy relationship.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
i agree, i agree... act as the signs appear than act on later... thanks for the post and happy my lotting!!!!
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
24 Aug 08
Other signs that a relationship is unhealthy are:
1. You find yourself "pretending" to be happy.
2. You find yourself lying to yourself in order to keep the relationship going.
3. You are diagnosed by a doctor as severely depressed.
4. You are not comfortable talking or discussing a variety of subjects with your partner.
5. You dread your partner's arrival.
6. You long for your partner's departure.
7. You or your partner have an addiction that is affecting the relationship.
I am sure there are more but those are a few of the signs that I can think of right now.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
thanks for sharing the other signs when the relationship that you are into is not healthy anymore. i know a lot of people who are toxic in there relationship will appreciate what you have added. I truly do. I am currently happy with the relationship that i am in but i know friends who are not... happy my lotting ang thanks for the post!!!
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
24 Aug 08
hi there..thanks for the advice.. this is very informative. how are you? i miss you friend. happy mylotting!
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
hi friend, thanks for the post. i am good. how about you? i miss you too!!!
