i need some help urgent

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
August 24, 2008 8:01pm CST
ok about a week or so ago me and my girlfriend got intimate for the first time and she was a virgin at the time and when we started to get intimate i stretched her with my fingers first because i thought that it would be less painful for her honestly, and then it hurt her really bad so i stopped that and later on that night we tried again and it was just normal and she wasnt so sore she said but it still hurt so we stopped...and we tried a few other times and she would talk about how much it hurt her no matter how easy i was with her and then she said once that it was feeling a little better, the thing is she was just finishing up her period, and after that we got intimate again and she bled(i guess because we got further and its natural for a virgin to bleed)anyways she says that its really tender down there and that it was painful when i was doing it, and she still spots a tiny bit of blood after using the bathroom, so what is the matter, is something wrong? thank you for taking the time out of your day to come and read my discussion and i hope that you all will have an answer and i also hope that you all have a great evening, night and the rest of your weekend is great! thanks!
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• United States
25 Aug 08
I far as I know from my past experience it is perfectly normal what is going on with her body. You "popped her cherry" and it may bleed a little bit for a while. After a few weeks if she is still bleeding then she would want to take a doctors visit. If she is really worried now it never hurts to visit the doctor just to ease her mind. Take Care!
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• United States
25 Aug 08
There probably isn't anything wrong. It's natural for bleeding to occur the first time
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@4aps777 (1528)
• United States
26 Aug 08
she is ok,lube her up and take it easy,she will be sore but she will get use to it.
• United States
25 Aug 08
I agree that thre prob isnt anything wrong, but if it worries here that much its always better to be safe then sorry, and have her checked out by her gynecologist.
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@rocker21 (2716)
• India
25 Aug 08
I think its normal, its just that its your first time, happy love life!Welcome to Dreamland!