what do you do when u n yur bf broke up?..

August 25, 2008 2:15pm CST
well me and my boyfriend broke up but the reason was because he said we dont see eachother and we dont communicate as much. i miss him badly how can i get him back without lookin desperate??
4 responses
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
Their is nothing wrong missing him cause you got used to it,or you just realized so many things that he was that important when things have change completely. I think why don't you just try to call or just see him and say hello or hi! Nothing wrong being a friend again but you can't expect for more. Sometime setting one free is not the reason that he doesn't love you anymore. Sometimes love has so many excuses that when you think it over it was not meant for you and it will take time to heal and adjusting that your alone. In love you can't ask for a return. You just be contented the feeling of being in love and having love at all. If it comes back to you it was really meant for you no matter what. Well for me I rather just try to be a friend and start all over again! just a Hello,how are you... then I will just make it flow, start from the very beginning again! Have a nice day! God will make a way!
@bamba560 (23)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
how long have you broken up? the question is that do you really wanna be with him or are you just not used to not being with him. no offense but the reason that he gave you when he broke up with you is not a good enough reason. If you really want him back then try talking to him first and ask him what he really wants. try compromising with each other and be understanding with one another.
26 Aug 08
I know how you feel I'm going through it as I write. It's been a year already, It's hard to forget the way you felt about him, but you have to find ways to keep you from thinking about him. I try to do as much as I can everyday so my mind is too full to even remember his name. The first couple of months are the hardest but it gets easier trust me. Good Luck!
@jonesy123 (3950)
• United States
25 Aug 08
He doesn't want you back. In order to not to hurt your feelings too badly and tell you that he fell out of love with you, he took the sheepish way out and blamed it on outside circumstances such as lack of actual together time he gets with you. Move on. You'll find somebody much better;)