how many of you mothers had money to buy for your baby
By ashly1979
@ashly1979 (1376)
United States
August 26, 2008 4:48pm CST
my son was not planned out it just happed i had no job no money to buy anything for my son was due in feb i had no hubby i had no one to help me with my son the guy that is the baby father did not want nothing to do with me or my son i think if you get a women pregnant you should take full responsibility if you get a women pregnant i not try to put you men down or nothing i know they are good guys out there that does right so i went to the church and they help me out a lot everything that a baby needs i was so thinkul to get the help that i need so after that the baby father was at wallmart and told my sister he got me pregnant and want to see the baby my sister told him that you was neaver there for my sister and now you want to see the baby and than he told her that he wanted a other baby by me and he wanted to do right and have a family i not not going back to him would you 
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@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Darlin you say it was not planned but yet you got pregnant. If you were not taking any birth control then it was planned. It is your responsibility as a woman to protect yourself what scares me more is that you only got pregnant it could have been a deadly disease. Do not blame the man for getting you pregnant but blame yourself for not protecting you. I am not sure how old you are but I sure hope you realize being a single parent is very difficult. Morally he should be giving towards that child. Legally he should be too have you gone to court for child support? Darlin I wish you the best of luck and remember to stay strong and no I would never think about having another child with him.
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@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
27 Aug 08
at the time i was not taketing brith control but if i had i would have not had my son i love my son
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Darlin I am not questioning the love you have for your son at all, all I was responding to was you saying he wasn't planned. When he was planned only because you did not take anything to prevent a pregnancy. Sometimes young niave minds tend to think oh I won't get pregnant. I guess I was just trying to let you know that if you do not take birth control you have high risks of getting pregnant.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
26 Aug 08
I am not a mother, but I do my best to save money for emergencies, incase something expensive happens. I agree with you that the person who gets the other person pregnant should take his sshare of the responsibility, but it's the responsibility of both parties involved to do their best to make sure unplanned pregnancies don't happen in the first place!
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@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
27 Aug 08
it is the best feeling to be a mother to see your kid oh i am so happy to be a mother don't regret it at all
