Need help coping with loss of my mother she just died last week
By Dominator
@Dominator (221)
United States
November 5, 2006 9:53am CST
any idea's of what i can do to get this off my mind all i can do is sit here at my pc and think about my mom im not getting anything done cause in every room of my home cept the office theres reminders of my mother and everytime i look at them or think about it i break up...
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5 responses
@amsharma (1860)
• United States
5 Nov 06
First of all, I am very sorry for your loss. I havent lost either of my parents, so I cant say that I know how you feel because I dont. I dont think anyone can tell you how to cope with your loss. It is important for you to grieve and get it out. Cry, scream, talk! Dont hold your feelings inside, because that certainly wont help. God bless you!
@Dominator (221)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Thank you for your respone i really apresheate it..it's just so hard for me i havent lost someone to me so close before and i am just going outa my mind.its so bad i even am pushing my spouse away and i dont mean to....but in time i hope i can find a way to deal with this...thank you so much for your kind words..
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@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
5 Nov 06
Yes that is so true
You will feel heavy if you trap your feelings inside but at the same time you will be much relieved if you cry your heart out!
I know that people who go wont come back
but you got her memories to live with
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I am so sorry. That is very painful. It takes time to heal honey. Try to stay busy.
@texgal (494)
• United States
6 Nov 06
It will get easier as time goes by I too lost someone very dear to me I lost my dad on oct.17th I still think about him everyday and cry alot when someone ask me how I am doing. Please just remember you will always have wonderful memories. I talk to my dad everyday when I am by myself and it helps. My prayers are with you. God Bless you
@AndreaLawStudent (287)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I am so sorry.
Time is the only thing that heals.
Look at places for online support dealing with loss. Message boards, online chats, etc. They seem to get me through some dark days.
If you are still having trouble coping, go see your Dr. and ask for maybe some Xanax or something.
Again, I am so sorry. I know what it is to lose someone.
