Have you ever told someone you love him/her ?

@Grimze (76)
Egypt
August 27, 2008 8:09pm CST
Why is it such a hard word when it means so much? have you ever told anyone that you love him/her? what did they feel? did anyone tell you that, and what did you feel then?
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
I agree with you.. It is really hard to say "I love you" especially to someone who you're not sure if he/she feels the same way too... Well, in my own opinion the reasons why we find hard to tell what we feel to someone whom we love, maybe because we are afraid what that person will react and especially of what he/she will say.. We are scared that she/he might reject our love and most of all we are scared to hurt.. Yes, I have told my boyfriend how much I really love him.. Everyday, I always tell him that I love him and same way he always tell me how much he love.. Of course, I feel very happy because I know that there is someone who is loving me unconditional and I know that he will aways makes me happy and won't hurt me.. Same way, he is also happy because he knows that I love him and I won't live him no matter what happen.. I guess telling I love you isn't really hard to say if you know that person feel the same way too and most of all if you are strong enough to face and hear what will that person react and say.. I think having strong strength and self-confidence will really help you/me/we to tell that person the 3 words "I love you" Happy posting..
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
28 Aug 08
The reason it's such a hard word is because it means so much. Society has taught us to refrain from such things. Though it denies it. We have been taught to care for only material and selfish things, so whenever these deep feelings surface we become afraid. Perhaps I've delved into the question deeper than you had intended. But yes I have both told and been told "I love you". Me and my boyfriend love eachother very much and we say it all the time, like every few minutes every day. Everyone else thinks it's annoying, but we don't care. And it feels great both to say it and really mean it and to hear it and know that they are truly sincere. Totally awesome. So how 'bout you?
@Grimze (76)
• Egypt
28 Aug 08
Its great what you have with your boyfriend, dont let others convince you otherwise. Nothing should stop people from telling each other how much they are in love whenever they feel like it. as for me, i'm afraid i havent found what i can all true love yet, guess i'm still kinda young.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
28 Aug 08
Yeah. You have tons of years to find that special someone. Don't worry I'm sure you'll find someone soon enough, just don't look too hard. Love is tricky. It likes to sneek up on you and take you for surprise. It always shows up when and where you least expect it. Well have a good one. :)
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
28 Aug 08
I have very rarely ever said I love you to someone other than my parents and other family members who either call or come visit,and the only other person I can think of that I have told I love you to,is my fiance because I tell her I love her all the time,and I always feel good when I tell her because I want her to know how much I love her,and she always tells me she loves me to,and it makes me feel good knowing she loves me.
@razor123 (979)
• India
28 Aug 08
I have not yet told a girl that i love her till date. Well just the kidding way with a laugh i have told many girls but just for time pass. But never with the real sense and seriousness. But one day i surely will thats a garantee People often tend to feel pretty shy or sometimes really scared to tell the girl or boy they love thinking about what answer or reaction they would get back in reply a "YES" or a "NO". I you love someone be frank and tell them if that person is destined to be with you it will happen else it won't its pretty simple people.
• India
28 Aug 08
Yes I Had Told Her n She Was Astonished To Listen That, Later On Another Day She Also Expressed Her Feeling Towards Me In The Same Manner & I Became Very Happy :d