does it bother you when...

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
August 27, 2008 9:38pm CST
i know that this will probably get a lot of responses but i want the honest truth on this, when you have someone that you are in a relationship with and you notice that they look at another person(like if your with a guy and he looks at another girl like when she walks by)does it bother you, i know with me if i have a girl and i am with her it just kind of bothers me when she looks at another guy(and no i mean in a way thats not so friendly)i don't know what it is and i don't say anything but i was just wondering about you all, does it bother you? i want to thank you for taking the time out of your day to come and read and possibly answer my discussion(i hope you will)and i hope that you had a great day and i hope that you have a great night the rest of the night as well, thanks again!
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@SwtJenlove (1090)
• United States
28 Aug 08
It bothers me when he breaks his neck to look back at one, but he hasnt done that in years. I have one of those reflexes that when he does that my hand automatically reaches out and smacks the crap outta him I dont stare at people i always think its rude. But i have to admit i do look at girls as well as my fiance does when they walk bye especially if they are pretty. I will point out some from time to time as well but the breaking his neck would aggrivate me lol Just remember there is the saying "you can look but you cant touch" i fully agree with that but sometimes its just way to obvious. :)
@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
28 Aug 08
i know what you mean, i think that its kind of rude when you are out wiht someone if they look at another guy or girl, since they are there with you, thanks for replying to my discussion!
6 Dec 08
It bothers me, and when there's only the two of us I would tell him to leave me alone and the relationship is over because I think I couldn't trust him that way, next time he might be tempted especially if the girl that she is looking at, likes him too. SO I better be off with him rather than to suffer to make me feel that I am not by his side or with him.
@chrislotz (8203)
• Canada
6 Dec 08
I would hope that you would have a talk with your girlfriend about it. It does no good to hold it in and not say anything to her about it. You need to explain to her that you are the jealous type and that it bothers you. If you don't it will come back to haunt you one day, let me tell you. My husband is the very jealous type and didn't say anything for many years, to me about it. So when I finally found out it was because he blew up at me one day because some guy asked me for a smoke. I never knew the guy or ever saw him before, in my life, and my boyfriend, I guess, just had enough and blew his cork. It was an ugly scene. I was more mad at him because he never told me that he had this jealous streak, and I was already living with him for about 6 years before I found out. And then 6 years of frustation came out all at once and I was devasted. We broke up because of it, but got back together after we discussed going to see a professional about it. So, my advice to you is to tell her how you feel, but not when the situations arises and you get angry at her. Tell her now. Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend, Have a good mylotting day, Chris
• United States
28 Aug 08
It doesn't bother me. I figure if he wants to leave or cheat, he will do it even if I don't allow him to look at other women. Besides, he doesn't say anything when we watch CMT and I drool all over the cowboys in tight jeans.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
It really bothers me. I'm a jealous type of person. And whenever my husband and I is going out. I want his full attention only on me. LOL. If that happens, I would probably pinch his ears. LOL. HUGZ!