Is it really ok to party hard while we are in studying period?
August 28, 2008 4:16am CST
Especially when you are in Uni or college, and are away from home country and parents and family. We get stressed out studying, coping out with so much courseworks and projects.. that you just wanna forget it, but instead go out and have fun going to clubs or house parties. At the same time, you are thinking that studying is about your own future, to be successful and earn as much money. Even if you get your temporary Uni/college work done then you started to go out so much, maybe some get drunk and have a night not to remember the next day.. Is this healthy? would it affect the whole studying period when we just get carried away?
28 Aug 08
Your life in danger if you keep like that. ( Yes we can Stress but the way you solve is not right enough ) try to make some schedule for study and playing because you can,t mix it up can study while your body is shaking (dance) or can you study while you flow with the music of course no! Word to remember " our daily life is our classroom " you said " We get stressed out studying , coping out etc" (actually we get stress in every part of our life not just in school) a lot of people think after i graduate from uni or college so we can success and never learn / study again. but if you think deeply : even if we have graduate from school / uni , we still study need a proof? OK, are you sure you can educate your child if you become parents someday?, without learning/ study from your parents or people around you? what do you do if you stress out from parenting your child? Go to club again and leave your child at home? Get Drunk again? Dare you to do that? or you got a job and you stress out and you drunk to forget all of your stress? you will got fired fast is you done that Studying is not always about money and success it,s about being a useful Human being. You must ask yourself: 1." can i show what have i studied to my parents when i go back to my homeland?" 2." can my parents trust me while they away from me?" 3."why i(you) am here?" After you ask yourself : you can choose by your own "Give up and go back to homeland" or "stay to study"? HOPE MY RESPONSE CAN HELP YOU. AVOID / DELETE MY RESPOND IF YOU DON,T LIKE
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28 Aug 08
Its ok to party hard I think... as long as it isn't all the time and doesn't get in the way of your work. I like to party on the weekends, but I only do it about once a month, and this doesn't get in the way of the rest of my life. I think it may even help break up the stress to get carried away every now and then. Just set bounds for yourself and you'll be fine.