What will you do when you are not sure if you love her?
By lixiaos77
@lixiaos77 (1030)
Shijiazhuang, China
August 29, 2008 12:17pm CST
When I was 22 there is a girl who liked to be with me all the time. I knew she loved me and I was happy when we were together. But I suspect if I love her because I have no passion to her. I hesitated to say words more than a friend. Several months later she gave up and married a guy who love her very much. I didn't know if I did the best thing that I could do.
Today I know we can't be a good couple and I didn't have a bad choice. But I couldn't make a quick decision at that time because I was not mature. It tortured me for several months.
What will you do when you are not sure if you love her?
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2 responses
@chatcat (51)
• United States
29 Aug 08
Do not accept her love one you can not be sure you love her.otherwise ,you will make you both drop to the deep pains for a long time even the whole life. Looking for the girl you love well much ,it is good for you ,your girlfriend and the girl you do not like very much. Especially for the men ,they must marry the one who he loves the most ,otherwise he wil not be happy in his marriage.every men who had married say like that.
@clickicy (571)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 08
If you are not sure of something, the best thing to do is avoid it. Well this statement seems right, but I believe that love can be gain afterward. Love is not a question with yes or no answer only. Love will develop as time goes by.
So, it depend on you. It is your decision. If you accept her, be prepared to start developing love inside your heart, start knowing her, and then accept her with all her weakness. Well enjoy your decision and your life.
If you say no then I have no more advise to share. Come on if you say no then it is over isn't?
