what will you do if your friend's girlfriend fall in love with you?

@cet1987 (209)
Malaysia
August 30, 2008 3:33am CST
what will you do if your friend's girlfriend fall in love with you? will you accept her love or do something?
12 responses
@narayan2006 (2955)
• India
30 Aug 08
Friend,It all depends on how much you yourself love the girl.If you really love the girl and accept her offer,ther is no need to fall back. If the girl changed her mind and approached you with a gift of love,abandoning your friend,it seems that the love relation between your friend and the girl was superficial and not geniune. Love can not be forced and imposed on somebody;it is based on mutual trust and commitment.The girl has the personal choice and rights to decide her own partner of love. Thanks.
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@cet1987 (209)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 08
great answer. thanks.. but it is hard to accept that girl's love because we will think about our friend's heart..
• Australia
5 Mar 09
I think you have to make her understand that your friend is good and his friend introduce her to him . HOw could he can do this ? May be later she find another person and leave you alone than wht u will do ? You may be down in your bestfren eye as well as Girls eye. Evryone will laugh on you. So try to convince her not to do that and i can't do anything . Don't make a trouble to me
@chaijudin (506)
• Indonesia
30 Aug 08
i will say to Her: hy my friend girlfriend why you do this to me? , you make me your 2nd boyfriend? , you want to ruin my relation with him! HAVE YOU LOSE YOUR MIND! but if she(my friend girlfriend is damn sexy / pretty) i will say like this: hy my friend girlfriend i know you like me but you both are my friend. i don,t want to hurt yourself and His(My friend) too, i know is hard for you but i have a solution . 2 Go to him and say: Honey i got something to ask you. you know I think i fall in love with both of you can you both be my boyfriend ? HAHAHAHA just kidding in real yes it,s hard to solve i dunno what must i do , but i will not done what i am kidding here. trust me
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@cet1987 (209)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 08
hahaha.. you are funny guy... yes, i admit it is hard to solve.
• Philippines
30 Aug 08
i will do something,, he's my friend, so why could i steal his girlfriend? and the girl is so FLIRT to do that..
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@cet1987 (209)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 08
love is blind...hehe
• Canada
12 Sep 08
My friend has been gong out with this girl for like 3 and a half years, problem is she has lost intrest and wants out, but if she tryed to leave he wouldnt leave her alone he would try to hurt himself because he believes she is all he lives for, altho he is selfish and always thinks about himself and doesnt kno how to love her the way she wants, ive been friends with him for like 4 years and often I see how he only cares for himself 89 percent of the time, over time me and her stated to see eye to eye so to say (me and the girl), looks lead to smiles, smiles lead to us talking more and then we kissed which we knew was the right thing two weeks later we have been talking on the phone for hours and cant seem to get enough, long story short im crazy about this girl and shes the same way but we both in this mess more her than me because im sick of the way he treats me anyways so Its more of her than has to let him go in the best way possible but we both kno It wont come easy (or fast) All I know Is I want to love this girl with what Ive got, So anyone and everyone please get in on this and help me out and please give me some advice and opinion, thannks Mike, Canada
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• Canada
12 Sep 08
My friend has been going out witht his girl for lke 3 and a half years problem is she has lost intrest and wants out , but if she tryed to leave him he would try and hurt himself because he believes she is all he lives for , altho he is selfish and doesnt know how to love her the way she wants , Ive been friends with him for like 4 years and often I see how he only cares for him self 89 percent of the time , over time me and her started to see eye to eye so to say(me and the girl), looks lead to smiles, smiles lead to us talking more and then we kissed which we both knew was the right thing now two weeks laterwe have been talking on the phone for hours and cant seem to get enough , long story short Im crazy for this girl and shes the same way but we are both stuck in this mess more her than me because im sick of the way he treats me anyways so Its more on her, so please everyone say what you want and give me you opinions because I need some help with this , Mike , Canada
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
well if my friend's boyfriend falls in love with me, i'd stay away. i don't want to ruin my relationship with my friends because i value it a lot. i don't want to hurt those people close to my heart.;-)
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@mmcczzhh (30)
• China
1 Sep 08
I will convey a candid conversation with her, to make her know my feeling on her. And the most important thing is to keep a certain distance with that girl if you really cherish your friendship with your friend.
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@fifileigh (3619)
• United States
31 Aug 08
just go with the flow. if 2 people r meant to be together, go for it. some people date certain people to get closer to their friend. because their friend is more accessible and easier to talk with, and the one they really like is hard to talk to because they get nervous and have a crush on them. so they need more time and to approach the one they really like slowly and indirectly until they fall in love and have mutual feeling with one another.
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• India
31 Aug 08
go to your friend and tell him whats going on and if you guys have a solid friendship he will dump her like a bad habit
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@hiteshrup (270)
• India
30 Aug 08
I will go for date with her. and why should i not? If i look handsom and intelligent than my friend, then why should she love him??? LOL
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@rocker21 (2717)
• India
30 Aug 08
i would make her understand that my friend is a nice guy and she musnt betray him
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@reckon21 (3486)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
I would never hurt my friends feelings. By hitting on his girlfriend. Even if I liked the girl so much. I will avoid the girl the best way possible.