Is it a big deal for you to be with someone who was previously married?

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With the prevalence of divorce in a lot of countries, this issue is quite nil. But for those who still do not believe in divorce, and have families who don't believe in it, then it can be quite a problem. I am in a dilemma. I am a second wife... my husband was married before. We have two kids. He has 3 other kids with his first wife. My mother didn't like my husband at first, more so now that she found out that he is separated from his first wife. My siblings share the same sentiment. We are currently in separate countries since he has to work overseas to support the family. This arrangement is quite ideal at the moment since I am living under my mother's roof. They are all hoping and praying that I see reason and end our relationship. We still love each other and are trying to make the most of the long distance relationship. (thank goodness for the internet) It has been five years since I last saw him. If you were in the same situation as I am, what would you do? Will you continue to defy your mother or just give in to what they want?