seeing your bf/gf with other girl/boy....

@ehlsie (730)
Philippines
August 31, 2008 8:56pm CST
Entering in a relationship is not that easily...it shoulders also responsibilities to make the relationship work. Most of us, give everything to show to our partner how much we love him/her.Giving your full attention, All your time and effort just for him/her. But sometimes, it's not enough. Sometimes Your partner still fooled you even you do everything to him/her.. Like the situation of my friend, She has a boyfriend who she really loves....She gave everything, her time, effort and her self...She can't live without the guy (as she said to me...)But one time, when I'm in the mall i saw his boyfriend with other girl!!!!(walking at the mall, holding hands!) He didn't see me...So how can I say this to my friend?that's the first thing come to my mind...But I don't want to hurt her....When i go home, I called my friend...At first i started to talked to her...(like saying hi and hello, asking about her life and hows life going on) and at the middle of our conversation i asked her If where his bf is right now...She said that her is went out with his friends...I really feel bad for me friend, coz all that she know is not true...I want to say what i see but i know that his bf will just deny it and my friend will think that i'm only destroying their relationship. But i take the risk...I told to my friend that I saw his bf with other girl in the mall.At first she told me that it's not true,that im just kidding...Buit after few minutes, she cry...I' so worried for her.She said to me that many our her friends also told her that but she don't believe..She want to see it with her eyes that her bf is cheating her! If you were on her side, what would you do?
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4 responses
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
1 Sep 08
Hi friend,This kind of situation really hurts too much whoever it is.When your friend has so much of love for her botfriend and he in return is only cheating on her.He is not worth to have such a nice loving girl friend.He is not fit to get her love.Ask her just to quit out of that ralation.I would only do that bcoz I really can never stand such relation.Thanks for sharing.Happy mylotting.
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
yeah you have a point! that was i also told my friend that, that kind man man doesn't worth crying for. thjere we're lots of man who will love him back as she do and will never make her cry... thanks also for sharing! have a nice day!
@jinxky (2251)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
boys will be boys, one girl is not enough with them coz if they're having lots of girls they feel they are handsome or macho, which is not! i'm goin to kick his b@%lls for that! i don't know what will i do if i'm on your shoe, maybe i will also tell her, maybe not. i don't know. coz if i will not tell my friend, it means i'm on the side of her bf. but if i will tell her, i know she will get hurt.. i really don't know..
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Will do the same if i were my friend! But the thing that i do (telling it to my friend)is a very tough decision. But i love my friend and i thought she'll be more hurt if i will nt tell it to her and continue her relationship with his f**kng boyfriend... thanks for sharing!happy mylotters!
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
1 Sep 08
i know you love your friend,and you did the right thing,for some people they have to see it for themselves that way it becomes real to her.she will be fine having a friend like you
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
wow thank you..I love all of my friends and i don't want to see them hurting by other or even crying. At first im afraid to tell it to my friend coz i thought she'll not believe to me.Coz most of people whose inlove is not believe to other people specially when you're talking about his/her bf/gf. They used to give up everything (even friendship) just for their love....Luckily, my friend believe to us...(although she really love his boyfriend) thanks for sharing!
@Cannonball (3635)
• France
3 Sep 08
Few years back I was crazy of a girl like dat but really crazy. She went in Paris for her studies or something and I found out she was cheating on me,it was one of the worst experience in my life coz I did like her a lot. Then even after what she did to me when she come back to my hometown I just wanna have her like crazy,just like eyes wide closed U know. Well,sometimes we lose control in certain situation but your friend she will learn for sure from it and U did a very good move by telling her coz U didn't want her to be fooled,sometimes its better to be hurted than staying blind. This guy is just a bit silly or just young or a little bit of both,the good thing is one day he understand its not so funny to break girls hearts