can you be in love with more than one person at the same time?

South Africa
September 2, 2008 2:42am CST
This question was raised on the radio the other day, and it had alot of interesting responses.Some said yes others no.I personally think that it could be possible to love more than one person but it could get messy.Or maybe one should be a fantasy love to keep you going when your actual love disappoints you.Maybe? I really would like to know what my fellow mylotters think and thanks for taking the time to answer.
3 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
2 Sep 08
i hvae heard many people claim they zare in romantic love with more than two people. but I think those are not possible. they can't be said love atleast.its two timing and cheating
• South Africa
2 Sep 08
I guess you have a point when you say it is two timing and cheating.Love should be uniek I guess thats why they say there is only one person made specially for you.Thanks for your answer.
@Aniakim (351)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Sep 08
i would like to think so. but you eventually have to choose only one. people are not perfect and sometimes there are qualities that you want guyA to have that you find in guyB. But that makes us more lovable as person, our being imperfect. Choose and don't play with someone else's feelings and treat the other guy - the love you couldn't have.
• South Africa
2 Sep 08
I really liked how you looked at it. Thanks for your answer makes perfect sense!!!
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
2 Sep 08
Now that depends on what kind of love you are taking about. Is it only boyfriend -girlfriend love that you are talking about? Cause i love Three people at the same time!! I Love my Mom, I love my Husband, and I love my little Son too. So i have two men in my life. Actually love is not restricted to only boyfriend and girlfriend, there is motherly love for her child, material love for things that you desire. So i think, a person can be in love with a dozen of things at a time!!