If you got deeply hurt will you give a second chance?

Philippines
September 2, 2008 3:38am CST
No one is spared of getting hurt deeply. With different reasons. In different relations. In different places. & in different situations. If you got deeply hurt will you give a second chance?
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6 responses
@nengs10 (3188)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
The hurt should be lost first. I mean we should mend the broken heart first before falling again or giving another chance. Being deeply hurt is a serious scenario in a relationship.I just can't imagine what reasons lie in it. Happy posting.
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• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Learning to forgive must come from learning to forget.
@Aniakim (351)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Sep 08
it depends on the reason. if i was really hurt deeply then it would probably take a lot of convincing to give that person another chance. And if ever i did, I must love that person more than myself to be able to forgive and forget what i've been through with him.
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
I agree that you must love the person more than yourself before you learn to forgive him or her.
@youless (91111)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Sep 08
Most of the time I will still give the second chance. I know I am seriously hurt, but if this one already apologizes, I shall be generous. I love China
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
That is so kind of you.
@subha12 (18453)
• India
3 Sep 08
If I have to speak [politically correct, all will say its good to give second chance. My heart will not let give it a second chance. when you have cheated me big time, i will not forgive for life.
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• Philippines
4 Sep 08
I understand how you feel.
@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
It will depend on your actual feeling at the time that he was asking for a second chance. If you feel that he is sorry about hurting you badly and you felt the sincerity, then consider your feelings. Answer these questions: 1. Would you be more miserable without him? 2. Would you feel a lot more miserable when you're with him? If you answered yes to the first question then you must give him a second chance. But remember you are not having a boyfriend to make your life miserable, the reason why you are entering a relationship is because you wanted to be happy.
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• Philippines
4 Sep 08
That is a good guideline questions.
• China
2 Sep 08
It hard to say!If you love deeply,you can't control yourself ,you will forgive the man who hurt you.
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• Philippines
4 Sep 08
Yep, love controls our mind sometimes...or most of the times!