Virginity, is it still an issue?

September 2, 2008 11:20am CST
We are now in the 21st century where almost everything is modern. This is somewhat a sensitive issue, but i want to know your honest answers. Do you think virginity is still important, nowadays?
4 responses
@teka44 (3425)
• Brazil
3 Sep 08
Hi ace. I think that virginity isn't an issue nowadays. It is a good thing because give much importance to virginity doesn't make sense. Men can take our virginity only once, so what about all life after this? If you love someone what means a little skin? Love, respect and fidelity are an issue. Nowadays women have the same right to try to be happies than men. If a woman doesn't has luck the first time she can try again and again. All the women are better than a little skin. Cheers and have a nice day.
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Hi there teka44! Yes we are now in the modern times. Virginity is not that big deal anymore for most people. What is important is that you have respect and loyalty. And both of you are bonded with the power of true love. Have a great day to you my friend!
@rainmark (4306)
2 Sep 08
Maybe to some people yes, some don't bothered about virginity as long as that the couple is faithful and doing well in relationship. you can find some couple now, get married which the girl is pregnant, some get married even they are single mum, so now, virginity is not an issue.cheers!
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Hi rainmark! Just like you, i also think that virginity is no longer an issue at this time and age. Well of course chastity is still important, but marrying someone who is not a virgin anymore is a big deal. As long as you are both in love with each other, I think that counts most.
@joy4you (641)
• India
7 Sep 08
I agree to the views you've expressed in this discussion, a lot also depends on the kind of environment or culture you have been brought up in and what one thinks about this. If you love someone and believe you will marry that person, does that mean you can loose you virginity? I would say that if you believe you love some one enough to marry him/her that why not wait until marriage to do it, besides if you love each other then having s** or not should not be an issue.
@alecz23 (486)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Of course, it will be a special gift to your love one and as I can remember the story of the virgin mary I was so amazed with the fact that his husband wants to leave her because he was shocked knowing that mary was pregnant..then as we all know that a angel came to his dream and told him that her wife is chosen to carry God's child...and id where going to know some logic, even if they where together still joseph respect her wife and from that time she still a virgin... but I know this is 2000 years ago but still I hope this virginity issue still be an issue to our age because I'm still a virgin ahehe :)