do you do things you dont like

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
September 2, 2008 9:58pm CST
i know that when you are in a relationship you are suppose to make the other happy sometimes and some times that means that you do things you don't like or i have in the past at least, and if it makes her happy and i don't want to do anything else i will do what she wants to do because it gives me something to do...so i was just wondering about everyone else, do you ever do things that you don't like just to make the other person in the relationship happy, and if you do how often do you do things that they like...thanks for taking the time out of your day to read my discussion and i hope that you will reply...i really hope that you all had a great day and that your night is good as well, again thanks for taking the time to read my discussion.
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@mamuzo (225)
• South Africa
3 Sep 08
That's called compromise . . . and you will find it easy to do when you love someone. I am not a soccer fan but my husband is, and ever since we met he would ask me to go to soccer matches with him, it never set well with me then but now where theres soccer and my husband there you will find me. It gets even easier when you know that the other person is also willingly compromising on their side. That's what love is all about!
@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
3 Sep 08
You are right, sometimes when we are in a relationship there are times when we have to do something even if it is against our will as long as it is for the better of the relationship or as long as it can make our partner happy. These things we call as compromise. Sometimes even though we do not like it we will eventually grow to like it especially if it really does make our other half happy. As long as that thing is not out of your boundaries I think it is fine. Love is a two-way road so we have to give and take.