How did you feel when your love got rejected????

India
September 3, 2008 2:37am CST
Hey guys. Someone will feel for that and will try a lot to get it back. Some will leave that and will try for the next one that suites them. Both are correct in their own way. In these which category do you belong to??? Share your views about this..
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@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
i'll fell bad and try to forget him..
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@lovenluck (1068)
• India
3 Sep 08
its not so easy forgetting right ,i have tried but still can't get her out of my mind
• India
4 Sep 08
Ya its very difficult actually. What we can do is to try forgetting.
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
I am the type of person who wont force someone to love me if he cant love me in return. I know that the relationship wont last and in the end i will be the one who will be hurt. The more you force yourself to someone who cant even give back the love that you deserved the more painful it is. People should not beg for someone for love. All of us deserved to be given the same love that we can give. We cant force feelings.When a person doesnt have the same feelings as yours it is best to just let it go and find someone who can love you better. Somebody who will treat you right. I believe that each one of us has its own destiny. So instead of forcing someone to love me back id rather just let go of that feelings and move on.
• India
11 Sep 08
Some person take less time to decide and some will take more time. What if your person starts loving you in the future by seeing your activities. Why don't we give some time for them to rethink again???
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
I am the type of person who dont beg for someone to love me if there is no assurance.What if it took 5 to 10 years for him to learn to love? would you gamble your whole life for that? and in most cases its not love what the person feel but pity...If a person would make up his mind out of pity. I would rather just let go and find my own happiness on another person. The worst scenario would be because you wait so long for him you will end up alone. Chances are you cant let go at all because of too much pain you feel in your heart. I will not allow myself to be in that kind of situation. Life is to short and i would'nt spend it living miserable because of someone who dont have the heart to love me.
@rainmark (4302)
10 Sep 08
I had been loved before and it's got rejected. So what can i do? i just moved on,never say anything and just continue your life searching for the best on you. I know how does it feel.It's really really bad and it seems like a nightmare. back on my teenage life, i got a suitor, i rejected his loved and on the next day, night time, he hit our glass window with the stone.That was scary! happy myloting!
• India
11 Sep 08
Thank God that you rejected his love. One can't force to love him/her. That will never happen. Happy to have your response. Happy mylotting. Have fun.
@MeiFrank (66)
• China
4 Sep 08
Wow, that is a real complex thing.as me , I will try to get it back during the early time, but after I am sure she really does not love me ,I will go away and come back to my own life.but sometimes , if you love someone deeply,it is not easy to give up. good luck to everybody and hope everybody can find his/her suitable lover.
• India
4 Sep 08
Ya you are right. Thats the right thing to do. Happy to have your response.
@divinchris (2449)
• India
7 Sep 08
The best medicine is to not love others so crazily.Then even if he/she leaves you.you may not feel like heart-broken.Love a person only if he/she can marry you on any occasion,otherwise its better not to love.
• India
8 Sep 08
You can't and won't love with purpose. Its not intensional. Suppose when you see a person and just start thinking whether you can live with her and whether you can marry her. At that instant itself you are in love. Without love you need not actually think if you can marry her. May be some are afraid of risks. Thats the reason that they don't propose to the particular person they love.
• India
10 Sep 08
first time i proposed to a girl, she casually said a No. well, i knew it that i dont fit in with her. but then it is a two way journey. love canot happen one way. to be in love both have to accept each other and hve the same feelings for each other. how i felt? initially i wondered why, what is wrong in me and so on. then i found that women have a different way of looking at things. i fell for her just because she was simple beautiful.
• India
11 Sep 08
Outlooks will stay only for few years. We should never decide our love by that. As you said the thinking is important. The thinking must be the same so that we can live together for years. Happy to have your response. Happy mylotting.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I think I will choose to leave and will try for the next one that really suites me or deserving of my love. Why should I insist myself with someone who doesn't deservr my love. Or to whom I cared and wasn't appreciated. I think that was kind unfair for me then. Anyway it's not yet the end of the world and their are alot of fishes outside.Do you think that falling for someone who doesn't care for your kindness or feelings for him or her would someday like you,love you if you will continue pursuing the love that you wanted? I did not say I don't love her it's just that setting her free is also you love the person and you love that person have own happiness what she really like to happened in her life and wishing everything in the world even that you felt rejected. Life has to go on and on until you have found that someone that is really meant for you. Good night! God bless!
• India
4 Sep 08
Ya you are right. And its not actually possible for the other person to accept your love the first time you propose. They may take time for them to realize their needs right??? Why don't we just wait for a little time after rejection also??? There are chances for them to come back na???