who will you choose the past or the present?

@aize003 (225)
Philippines
September 3, 2008 10:28am CST
you're in new relationship then one day your ex (love of your life who left you broken) suddenly appears after a few years and tells you that he/she's dying asking to take him/her back coz he/she still loves you with all his/her heart will you accept him/her or stay in your current relationship who you learned to love..
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
It seems you got your topic based on the TV show (telebabad) in GMA the Filipino version of Kim Sam Soon .. Oh well, if I am on that situation of course I will choose the one who is right now.. Since, he is just my past and he broke my hurt too so bad then I think he don't deserved a second chance especially now that there is already someone who owns my heart.. Actually, I can stay with him but not as a lover but as a friend.. I can just live my present relationship just because he is dying.. And besides if ever I'll choose him I don't think that I still love him, I choose him it is just because I pity on him .. Well, past is past and no matter what he will do he can't never returned the past but just face the consequences in the present and that consequences is I am not choosing him or coming back into his life...
@aize003 (225)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
@kissie34 well not exactly i have this friend who happens to be in that situation she was madly in love to this guy they were inseparable but we didn't expect that the guy would actually dumped her left her broken.she was devastated she thought he's the one but eventually this doesn't work out between the two of them..then after 3 yrs her ex showed up in her doorstep asking her to take him back..
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
hmm... sometimes i like to be in the past just like to go back to my high school life, but im here now, dont have any chance to go back. the only thing i can do about the past is to have my experiences good or bad and make the as lessons also for the present life.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
3 Sep 08
I will let my ex lover learn to realize that I've fallen in love with someone who treats me like a king/queen and I could never give that up for someone who did not apreciate my happiness. I will let my ex lover know that I will always be there for him/her but as a friend who would be there for a friend.
• United States
3 Sep 08
I would stay in my current relationship as my wife is my best friend. I was once good friends with my ex and currently friendly with her, but it goes no further. The betrayals and lost trust/respect still hurt after nearly 30 years.
@lemayan (188)
• Germany
3 Sep 08
noooooooo ofcourse not why did he dump you in the first place? because he thought you were no longer good enough for him and then after a few years he suddenly realises you are worth his while? it doesnt work like that, you should not even be considering it. think about it if he was not sick dying would he still come back?
@kjeld19 (43)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
i like to get back in the past to change all my mistake but seems it only be done in my dreams hehe
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
3 Sep 08
Past is past and life goes on. I would say that I don't want him back. I will never betray my present love.
• Pakistan
3 Sep 08
i will never accept that peson... coz he does not deserve me... the one who did accepted me.. i will kick that ex person, and insult him... coz i dnt think he stands a second chance... i hate such people
@rina312 (296)
3 Sep 08
Hi aize, no way I'd take him back. I'd feel great that he wants me back after breaking my heart. In fact i'd feel great that I'm currently in a relationship and being happy. I'd be sayin like now you are suffering, serves him good. hehe.