What can you say to this?

Philippines
September 3, 2008 10:42pm CST
A man cries because his girlfriend breaks up with him. For me, I admire a man even if he cries, Its not degrading for any man if he cries because he lost a girl he loves. I may say that girl is quite lucky to have him but then of course, we can not rely on the crying thing. Well, what can you say? I've seen guys who comes to me and ask for help. It melts my heart whenever they start crying. But it depends on the kind of guy, others are just too weak.
2 responses
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
I admire men who are not afraid to show their real emotions. Crying is not always a sign of weakness. For me it's more like a sign of sincerity. It also depends on the reason. We are not that stupid to not know the difference between a cry baby who just cries for pathetic reasons and a person who cries for more significant reasons. I have seen men cry because of love (my exes and my boyfriend. I find it sweet and sincere. Women sometimes complain that men are insensitive so why still complain once we get in touch to man's sensitive side? hehe right?
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
yeh, I agree with you. I had a boyfriend who cried right in front of me when I broke up with him. OMG I really don't know whjat to do then, we both ended up crying then I told him to go home anf we'll just talk again some other time. But we never got back together. But I felt his pain, he's not the showy kind of guy but when I saw him cried, it saw a totally different guy. oh well....
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
4 Sep 08
No, a man crying is not degrading. I am 57 and cannot count how many times in life I have cried. Too many, I know that. But, breaking up shouldn't just be a reason for a woman to cry, a man should be able to cry as well. I would
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
I believe so too, fwidman. We are all but human so I guess to cry over a break up is normal. tnx for responding...