attending functions/marriages

India
September 3, 2008 11:47pm CST
is it possible for you atend all your friends/aquatintances marriage assuming we find it is possible to attedn relatives marriage, i generally am not able to attend even relatives marriages forget about frinds or aquaitntances, it has become a naggign problem as many friends have stopped taliking to me
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@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
4 Sep 08
Hi friend,Attending marriages and functions are a bit difficult for me.As I have to travel long distance and I have to postpone my work am not able to attend.Even for me its becoming a problem.Here after we have to reduce all those activities as it gives stress and we need to atten or meet them when we get time.Thanks for sharing.Happy mylotting.
• India
4 Sep 08
distance of certain functions defenitely is a problem for attending the same
@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
4 Sep 08
it depends on where it will be held. If it's too far and quite impossible then I would decline BUT it depends on who the person is. If we are really close then I would find a way to go there. Most of the time also, people do not attend weddings because they have no gift to give. My point of view is that you need not give an expensive gift but actually, your mere presence is THE gift to the couple getting married. If you decline to ALL the weddings of your friends, chances are they WILL get mad at you. Specially if you have no valid reason for not being able to attend.
• India
4 Sep 08
givign a gift is no big deal, cos as long as u cover your gift the guests are not going to notice it, the person who received would least be bothered as there are sop many gifts
• United States
4 Sep 08
that sucks that they have stopped talking to you!! people cant help being busy with work or not having money to go etc.. if they really care they will be disappointed but wont end the relationship.. i havent been able to go to all of the ones i have been invited to and some of those im glad lol