Can anyone offer an explanation?

@rbailey83 (1401)
Canada
September 4, 2008 12:46am CST
i just recently realized this when soemthing came up that made me look back over my past and the girlfriends i have had. So here is a scenario, you meet someone and they are very quiet when you first go out to meet them, pretty much just sit there offering only a few words every now and then but literally doing nothing. how does the other person become interested? i have never approached a girl showing any intentions towards dating, i usually sit back, keep to myself, don't talk much especially around other people, and yet i have somehow managed to meet several girls, and most times they just give me their number and tell me to call them, after the first time meeting them, with that type of scenario play'd out, they already want to plan out another time to meet up, im not complaining by any means, but how does that workout when a person literally does nothing the whole time they are around them on the first meeting or two?
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@fwidman (11515)
• United States
4 Sep 08
Maybe the girls were looking for someone quiet. Maybe they think you are being bashful, but the few things you said made them think that there is more to you that they would like to know. Or maybe they were just so busy talking they didn't notice that you were quiet. No matter the reason it is all good for you because they are interested in you
@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
lol yeah that could very well be, and i will never complain about that, lol i'd have to be an idiot to start, it's funny though how people view things so differently than another
@tlb0822 (1412)
• United States
4 Sep 08
Some girls might like a guy who is laid back, and doesn't converse to much. That or they think your a nice guy and are letting them talk all about themselves. :)
@rbailey83 (1401)
• Canada
4 Sep 08
lol yeah i never thought about that one, but i have never cared if they did talk about themselves, lol only way to learn more about the other person is to let them tell you and actually listen to what they are saying.