How do you celebrate death anniversary?

Philippines
@neildc (16923)
September 4, 2008 10:14pm CST
Sunday, September The Seventh, will be the first death anniversary of my mother. I wish to go to the park and visit her grave. I live in the south and the place is miles away from it that I have to take a plane and other means, to be there. So I have just to stay put here. Now I wonder, have you guys my friends and mylotters celebrate death anniversaries if you already someone that passed away? How do you celebrate and is it fine to do celebrate with death anniversaries? Can we save their spirits with our prayers from getting down there, if you believe in hell? (neildc @ red/90/1778)