swinging

@bugbaby (1787)
Indonesia
September 5, 2008 12:03pm CST
just a general question...has anyone here ever thought about or participated in "Swinging" or had a threesome with their wife or husband? if so what was the outcome???
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I've done threesomes, foursomes and thensomes and have never had a bad experience..I've never done it with my husband mind you because he's not into that sort of thing but the bf is and I'm sure at some point we will have at it.
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 08
wow...i am so...so shock but if you happy to do that i can say anything.
• United States
5 Sep 08
I personally have not done that but a friend of mine has. She regrets it because it ruined her marriage. She no longer trusts her hubby. There were no guidlines and I think that is what really screwed it up. I would like to be part of a 3some but I know that my BF would not. He has enough trouble keeping up with me. LOL.
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 08
if your boyfriend wouldn't to do that i think don't do that, just try another style that make you and your boyfriend have climax.
@metalhalo (599)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I have experienced threesomes. They can be very enjoyable and exciting. But there are many key factors that must be in place first. You have to be 100% confident in your relationship and know that anything you do together is for fun. There's absolutely no room for jealousy. You have to trust each other 100%. Communication is a main factor. Without it the outcome can be a disaster. It's also good to talk over guidelines and rules with each other. Learn what each other is comfortable with..what's ok and what's not. There should be boundaries put into place. If everything is thought out and discussed then it's purely amazing from there!
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 08
wow...great experience, i never do that, but wouldn't do that i afraid that can make my wife hurt.