Do You have A Baby That Sucked His or Her Thumb?

@okwusman1 (2247)
Abuja, Nigeria
September 5, 2008 1:41pm CST
I have a three months baby girl, she keeps sucking her thumb, even when hungry and when she is not hungry. And I am worried about it, I don't want her to become an Autism victim, how do I stop her from sucking it? It infuriates me seeing grab her momy's dress, fondle it and start sucking everywhere. Can she still stop?
9 responses
• Canada
5 Sep 08
Trying to wein a baby off the thumb will be very difficult. Unless you have something else to replace it with. A pacifier (sucky,dummy,chooch, and many other names for it) will help that. Although, those aren't the best either to use especially once they get older. Any dentist will tell you to make sure the child stops using any type of sucking device (ie: pacifier or thumb) before they are 4. After that, it can potentially damage their teeth. Sucking on something though is very natural for babies and it's nothing to worry about too much. It WILL NOT cause Autism! Once the baby is a bit older, there is a type of substance that can be put on her thumb that won't harm her but it tastes awful. Most kids will not like the taste and will not suck their thumb. Pacifiers are better for children as it doesn't cause thumb rot which is where the thumb starts to smell and is wrinkly due to sucking on it constantly. Other then that, there is no harm for your child to be needing to suck on something.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
5 Sep 08
thanks a lot, i am greatful for that wonderful education, this is my first baby and atimes she displays some new characters that am not familiar with like this thumb sucking. since it wouldn't cause any problem or sickness, then i will leave her be. cheers.
• Canada
8 Sep 08
Well Congrats on your first child. Both you and her are going to be learning together. No parent is fully ready for what a child brings but you will both learn together. I have a 5 year old and I'm still learning with her. Give me a baby again, and I know what I'm doing now. Just take deep breaths and if you really aren't sure about something, there's no harm in asking for some advice. Congrats again!
@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
My second and third child sucked their thumbs until the age of ten. when they were toddlers I make sure their hands are clean because I can't stop them from thumb sucking even when they are asleep.Don't worry thumb sucking do not cause autism.They will eventually withdraw from sucking their fingers when it's time they have other things to do and when they are busy playing with other children.She will stop sooner.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
14 Oct 08
thanks for that wonderful advice. i hope she stops it!
@Foxxee (3651)
• United States
7 Sep 08
Hello - I am curious why you feel thumb sucking is linked to Autism? They are by no means connected. Autism is not caused by thumb sucking && sucking the thumb isn't a sign of Autism, if you get what I'm saying... && sucking the thumb at 3 months is perfectly normal && most infants && even some toddlers do that. Heck some older kids do it as well for comfort. If you really don't like it, then replace thumb with finger... Let her suck for now, she is a baby && that is what they do. It's natural && comfort for her. I would worry if she is still doing it by age 3, but even then, it's not a disorder..
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Sep 08
thank you, i was worried the rate at which she sucks it, being my first child, I don't know how to stop her. cheers.
@Anne18 (11029)
8 Sep 08
One of my sons sucked his thumb for five years, nothnig wrong with him. I didn't give him a dummy as I don't like them. She will grow out of it when she is ready to, don't worry about it.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
11 Sep 08
thanks, i have made up my mind not to be scared about it.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Huh? I never knew thumb sucking could lead to autism? how come? but well my 4 month old baby is thumb sucking sometimes fist sucking. My sister also sucks her thumb big time, until she was high school (but that is only when no one can see) and she is not autistic.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
11 Sep 08
which means there is nothing to worry about!
@dong1970 (1572)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
Sucking of thumb made me remember of my nephew,since she was a baby it was her habit until now that she six years old.Maybe this habit will be corrected when she understand that this not good habit.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Sep 08
that is what most respondents said, I believe she does so because I hate it.
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I have never heard of a connection between thumbsucking and autism. Many children suck their thumbs as a way to soothe themselves. My son is 2 and he does it, has since he was a few months old. There is no harm, and no reason to worry about it unless it continues past the age of about 4 or 5 years. Then the concern is not autism but possible damage to teeth. On the other hand I know several people who sucked their thumbs well past the age of 5 years and had no negative effects from it. Babies suck by instinct, so her doing that in no way indicates a problem. In fact, trying to make her stop can be very stressful for her and cause difficulty sleeping and adjusting.
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
5 Sep 08
thanks alot, at least you have giving me a sigh of relieve, because i have disturb by it. I will rather leave her than cause some havok. cheers.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
6 Sep 08
hi, i had never intendes on using a pacifer with either of my kids but unfourtanly my son was born with a hernia in his graon area and he was i alot of pain so i gave it to him until he was 2 months i gave him 2 weeks after the surgrey and took it away so he was almost 3 months and i didnt have a problem with the thumb until about 1yr old and he 3 1/2 and still does it as for my daughter the hosptial gave her one she had it until she was 8 months old and i dont have that problem out of her so i would say give her one for a few months and see how she acts when you start to take it from her a pacifer wont hurt they do say it could cause buck teeth but i would assume a thumb would do the same her sucking her thumb is a way of comforting herself\ and i have never heard there was a connection between thub sucking and autsima
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
6 Sep 08
This is my first baby and her developmental changes is given us concern, when she was born she never sucked her thumb, all of a sudden she started, the more we remove it, the more she sucks. Infact, I get a pacifier for her, thanks for the encouragement.
• Philippines
5 Sep 08
yes, and a good solution to that is the pacifier..
@okwusman1 (2247)
• Abuja, Nigeria
5 Sep 08
please, this is my first baby, so i am new to the business. what is a pacifier?