Just tell the truth

@MZKUMA (705)
United States
September 5, 2008 5:27pm CST
Why can't your other half just fess up when you confront them for creeping? The trust is already in shambles, and lying just etch a way at the little trust you hope can be restored in them. Fessing you gives a "POSSIBILITY" of a chance to give them a second try if one feels the relationship is worth it. If you are confronted, consider that your other half knows a lot more than you think they know. Can anyone feel me here?
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3 responses
• United States
6 Sep 08
I Agree with that conpletely. If you've been confronted them hint hint they already know ya done it. Guys can be so retarded sometimes dont get me wrong females are jsut as bad as the guys are about lying knowing they done got caught doing it. And Well the ones that make the excusses so they dont have to fess up 99% of the time its cuz they dont like to be wrong or be called a lair for that matter.
@CKasulka (36)
• United States
6 Sep 08
your other half is prob scared of you... or thats what my other half says after i catch him.... well i would tell you but you just scare me... so i try to be more gentle with him when i punish him =)
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@MZKUMA (705)
• United States
6 Sep 08
LOL. You think so? could be. A woman's scorn could be scary. And things of this sort happens every day.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
5 Sep 08
Before I can give a halfway decent answer here, I'd first have to know what is "creeping"?
@MZKUMA (705)
• United States
5 Sep 08
Creeping, Fwidman....is cheating of some sort. My not have gotten to the intimate phase or it could have. It's playing with a fire that runs the risk of going to far. Some even consider it having an affair without the spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend/husband knowledge. Simply a different word for cheating. Thanks for responding.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
5 Sep 08
Well, if they have been caught creeping as you say, then lies will not help, that's true, Best to come clean and admit what is going on. Then the two of you can move forward
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@MZKUMA (705)
• United States
6 Sep 08
That's very true. It's getting them to fess up in the beginning that seems to be the problem. One day it might dawn on them just coming clean would have made the apology a wee bit more sincere.