Dealing with jealousy

United States
September 6, 2008 2:26am CST
I know that jealously is the result of insecurity and that I have plenty of. I am not sure why though. I am a beautifull, intelligent woman and am with the man I love. I jsut find it so hard to believe that he really will be faithfull to me and love me the way that i love him. We have had a rocky past and I was the one that was unfaithfull first. But I changed. I now want more than anything to have security with him and to feel that he will be with me forever. It is sickening to feel so jealous. I have a ring on my finger and still feel threatened every time I think of him looking at other women or hear him talk about some"hot girl". Am I crazy?
3 responses
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
6 Sep 08
jealousy is not the result of insecurity. Jealousy is the cause of the stupidity the other partner does and doesnt understands that what she's doing can hurt some one!
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
you can't deal about jealousy. it's actually normal to human being to get jealous.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
i don't think you are crazy, it is normal to be jealous if there is a reason but when too much jealous occurred you might lost the love of your life.