Who will you choose? The one you love or the one loves you?
September 8, 2008 3:54am CST
Hey guys! I just want to ask you something. Who will you choose the one you love or the one loves you? What do you think? Me, Maybe I choose the one I love if she loves me in return that would be fine If not that would be ok too. How about you guys?
8 Sep 08
My answer to your question would be based on my personal experience and decision on life and if you permit me, I'd like to share it here. I had my first romantic relationship after I graduated from college and had my first job already. He was a former officemate and after months of courtship, I answered him and we had a relationship which lasted for almost four years. He was good-looking, fair-skinned and needless to say, a lot of girls swoon over him. Then the biggest test in our relationship happened. A girl called me up and apparently, she told me that she was pregnant with my boyfriend as the father. I was really shocked and cried my heart out. My boyfriend and I had a confrontation which led to our break up. He admitted that it was his doing. I do loved him but I've already told him during the early months of our relationship that I will put an end to our romance if a child has to beg me to let go of his father. Even if he tried to rekindle our romance, I was totally deaf and blind with his pleadings and courtship again. I decided to end it even if the child is still unborn. While this was all happening, I had another suitor who eventually became my husband. In fact, we are married for more than five years now and we do have a daughter for a child. Personally, I couldn't love a man if doing so would mean that I will hurt someone else, particularly a child. I couldn't compete with that. I also believe that if he did it once and got away with it, he could do it again; hurting me in the process.