forgiving do it come easy for you?

i believe that we can not forgive easily, event though we do it at some time.but we are humans and we have a bad nature that tends to get out if we are angry or upset.some of us, care enough for their own sake as in not to be mean and try to forgive and forget because at some point someone would have to do the same thing for us.life is short.we shouldn't spend it with hate or revenge.

It's easy as a Christian to say, "I forgive you" because that's what Jesus has commanded that you forgive. But there are times when you still hold unforgiveness in your heart. At that point, you really have not forgiven them. Jesus forgives us for everything we do, no matter the offense, but as humans it's hard to practice that. If someone accidentally bumps you while walking past and they apologize, you can easily forgive them. But if that same person sleeps around with your spouse, you're not so easy to forgive then. I believe it's a process but no matter what, we must forgive.

I know if they have hurt me deeply I dont!

For me forgiving not less the burden for other but for own self. Angry at someone will only make our self unhappy.

yeah, as the saying goes, TO ERR, IS HUMAN ; TO FORGIVE, IS DIVINE.

forgiving don,t come easy at all for me as a matter of fact it can be very hard for me

I really think it depends on the type of person you are, your character, faith and if you have the ability to place yourself in someone else's shoes. I think it's best to be able to forgive because it doesn't weigh down on your soul. You're not carrying around alot of negative energy. Of course it's always easier said than done. Can you imagine how this world would be if everyone forgave each other easily. No grudges or hard feelings. It would be a completely different place. I'm the type that can forgive easily. Some may think that's a really good virtue but in the past it has lead me to get hurt all over again. So in a way I think being too forgiving could be a downfall.

I can not say I am huge on forgiving, but I am good about trying to see why a person betrayed me and what made them do it. What were their motives? Are they in the state of mind to do it again? You have to be realistic because some people are going to walk all over you time and time again. Forgive, but do not forget. I have to see some remorse though, I am not one to be walked all over and taken advantage of. I expect to be respected in the same way I respect anyone else.

Forgiving does not come easy for me. I'll tell you why. I'm a person who never forgets. I always remember what someone has done to me. In a way that's good. Just because you forgive someone doesn't mean you should forget what they did. For instance...look at cheaters. If i was married or even if my boyfriend cheated on me that's a really big deal. I may be able to forgive them but never forget. People who say they don't hold grudges are lying. We are human beings. We can never forget what someone has done to us. It's hard for me to forgive because that person automatically thinks that that means i forget and i don't. I won't bring it up or use it against you in an argument but it will always be in the back of my mind. it's hard to forgive and it's even harder to ask for forgiveness

Unless someone hurts my kids, I find it easy to forgive them. Mostly because I don't much care what people do and say anyway.