how can forget unhappy things?it's hard!

China
September 10, 2008 9:00am CST
The things what you want to forget you will remember well,some years ago i don't undertand,but now i have a experience,there are some view in your brain,it's deep and impressive... So i always think how everyone do face to this situation,i have no idea for this,i just do my best to disperse attention,although it will take me a long time,at least it's a effective way for me,i don't know what good method do you have?Hoping you can share it.
5 responses
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
11 Sep 08
It is not easy to forget unhappy things my friend. The best way to get it at the back of your mind would be to start doing things that you like. Keep yourself engrossed. Do things that make you feel happy. You will notice the difference then.
@Rintis (646)
• India
10 Sep 08
Unhappy things are very hard to forget. They remind us of the troubles we took, the failures we had, the tears we shed. I remember my unhappy days in a positive way. I take strength from it to overcome other problems, to learn from my previous failures and believe in God. It is only because of some unhappy things and events that we value happiness in our lives.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
10 Sep 08
yes dear it is difficult to forget such things. such memories hang around and donot appear to get faded!! i hope it is always good to be among the good things so that the images of the bad will not chase as ghosts!!
@rainmark (4302)
10 Sep 08
That's the reality. We can hardly forget those unhappy things on our life. Everytime it appears in our memory and the worst is, it hurts us. Seems like we never yet overcome those things. Maybe we just need to accept what happened in the past and if everytime we remember it, just give a smile to your self.Happy myloting!
• China
10 Sep 08
let it be, a simple three words, but it is hard to do like this. we are all human, we can't do what we want to do. don't make youself into the bad memories, that only make you unhappy, life is so short, and we must cherish everyday. all the human will have a pain, that's a real life, and we must face it ourself. life is like a mirror, when you smile to it, it will smile to you