when a man or woman cheats

Philippines
September 10, 2008 9:42pm CST
what is the difference when a man cheating from a woman who is cheating. isn't it the same thing. but why when a man cheats, most see it as a normal thing but when a woman cheats it's completely a different thing. why is it that when a man cheats his woman, he seems to get another chance, but when the woman cheats the guy go totally berserk and can't forgive her. isn't it just the same. what really is the difference....
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@esphyka (158)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
hhhmmm... we have accept the fact that the world is so unfair... when a man cheat its normal but how come when a woman cheat as if she made the biggest mistake in her life...others give her a bad impression... its human nature i think...very unfair
• India
11 Sep 08
There is no place of cheating in the healthy relationship. You are talking about the Man cheating the woman and again get a chance to be a faithfully. I mean the woman gives him a chance. But at the same if it happens on the part of woman the man never give her chance to improve to maintain the relationship and it break. To me there should be no cheating at all in the relationship.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
The difeerence is that society accepted that it is normal to men, that men are born polygamous by nature. Women should only stick to one man,cause of it's kind a degrading what society see when women cheats no matter they have a reason to be that way. This is life, reality bites!
• Canada
11 Sep 08
I agree it should be seen as the same thing and can't figure out why it isn't seen this way . I don't care who is doing the cheating , the man or the woman , to me they are both wrong but in society it does seem that it is much more tolerated if it is the man because it somehow is almost expected of him . That is a double standard and not right in any way . I believe a woman is more willing to give a man a chance when he cheats because I feel that a woman has many things to look at that a man doesn't such as how is she going to raise the children on her own ( as usually the woman gets the children ) , what are her family and friends going to think and woman don't usually make near the money that men do so there is the fear of how is she going to support herself and the children . Alos woman are more emotional so when something like this happens they have a harder time dealing with their feelings . I have been cheated on and always taking my husband back because I love him and want to believe he loves me . I don't want to take the children's dad away from them and don't feel that I could survive on my own . I am not sure if my love is stronger or this makes me a stronger person because I am able to take him back or if it means that I am too weak to be able to leave but the truth is that I don't want to leave because I do love him very much and can't imagine not spending the rest of my life without him .