How will let you go someone you love?

September 10, 2008 10:08pm CST
Did you ever get fed up if someone you love don't even change and still you are still beside him and love him for he is and still always forgive him to his mistakes and pretend nothing happened... thinking to let go and don't look back but still you are still coming back by one word that he is going to tell you? Sorry!!! and that i love you.... everything just repeats and nothing ever happened to the relationship...
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@kean28 (226)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
i hear yah! i know how it feels because i was stuck with that situation...its so hard to let go even when you know he is always at fault and was repeating the same thing...the thing is when he say the word and say sorry i easily give in...but i really really really feel i'm so fed up i just don't know how to let go because i keep on coming back..
@eve301345 (658)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
It depend on what kind of fed up you are talking about. If you get fed up with just the daily annoying things that he/she do then that when you can question yourself wither you can live with it or not. The problem with people you are trying to make changes is they tend to hide their real feelings and one day it will explode and could be worse. Now while its early ask yourself, can I live with it or not and if not better just to leave and if yes then you are accepting everything that he/she is not gonna change. Relationship is not about trying to make person change its about the comfort of two individual otherwise your relationship may last for few years but it will never last forever unless comfort is there. If you are talking about fed up because he cheated on you all the time then without question, leave him/her. Happy Myloting
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
this is hard. it takes a lot of courage before doing so. But if you love yourself, more than you love the person, this would be just a piece of cake. I believe I know everything about relationships now.[ well, with all the heartaches relationships I have had, been there than that.] Like, I'm one of those martyr type of girl who needs to be shot on the head to learn. Then I said,I have to improve myself, I have to change and love myself more. So I have changed all my views in love and relationships. It's not always love, it's commitment. When you commit, you change, when you change it's for the better, for the person and for yourself.